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The Very Human Therapist

Self of the Therapist in Clinical Work
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Livia Kent

A note from Livia Kent, editor in chief of Psychotherapy Networker, on the salience of person of... Read more

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The Very Human Therapist

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Table of Contents

Closing the Gap Between Authenticity & Technique

The Most Effective Skill You Were Never Taught as a Therapist

Most therapists lean toward either clinical technique or relational warmth—but the most effective work requires both. How do you achieve that balance? Read more

From Wounded Healer to Integrated Therapist

Evolving Toward a Differentiated Self

A wounded healer’s gift is being deeply attuned to clients. Their challenge is staying grounded in a strong sense of self. Read more

The Self of the Therapist

Learning to Be in Relationship with Our Issues

The wounds we work hardest to put behind us may be our most powerful clinical tools, if we’re willing to face them. Read more

The Courage to Confront

On Culture, Relational Recovery, & Speaking Truth to Power

How do you speak truth to power in a therapy session when your history has taught you to either fight or go silent? Read more

The Fiction of the Self

The Paradox of Mindfulness in Clinical Practice

What if our therapeutic goals of building self-esteem and developing a coherent self are symptoms of delusion? Read more

Three Ways the Therapist's Self Shapes Therapy

Using Our Selves as Instruments to Catalyze Change

How much of what happens in therapy with our clients is shaped not by what we do, but who we are? Read more

A Therapist's Most Important Tool

Salvador Minuchin on What Today's Trainings Are Missing

Long before “self of the therapist” was a clinical concept, the father of structural family therapy was teaching it by example. Read more

When Countertransference Hits Too Close

The Thin Line Between Empathy & Projection

When a client’s story mirrors yours, the line between empathy and a clinical misstep can be thin and tricky. Read more

The Neuroscience of Empathy

How Somatic Resonance Shapes the Therapeutic Relationship

Recognizing the uncanny ways empathy arises in the body can shift how you deepen attunement with clients. Read more

Where You End & The Client Begins

Using Your Issues in Clinical Work Without Making It About You

What does it take to help clients untangle relational patterns that have long complicated your own relationships? Read more

The Ordinary Magic of Thriving

Making Resilience Accessible in the Therapy Room

Despite exposure to trauma, many survivors experience well-being. So why does everything we read suggest that healing from trauma is the exception? Read more

Extra Features

The Art of Confrontation in Therapy

6 Ways to Gain Traction with Couples

In couples therapy, using confrontation isn’t conflict—it’s more like holding up a mirror to a system that’s malfunctioning. Read more

Can Being a Therapist Wear You Down?

The Occupational Injury No One Talks About

It's easy to interpret therapists over responsiveness as a personal flaw, but it's actually an occupational hazard. Read more

Departments

Borderline Personality Disorder, Revisited

Why Everything You've Heard about BPD is Probably Wrong

7 Benefits of Concurrent Couples Therapy

How Seeing Partners Separately Empowers Therapists

The Client on the Brink of Estrangement

Two Clinical Responses to the Question of Cutoffs

The Neuroscience of Habit Change

Using Reward-Based Learning to Transform Anxiety & Cravings

4 Clinicians Decode Films Every Therapist Should Watch

On the Psychology of Narcissism, Gaslighting, Attachment & Shame

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