Children, Parents & Families

All clients exist in a network of family relationships–as someone’s child, sibling, parent, or grandparent. Exploring familial bonds can help clients make sense of attachment patterns and improve relationships with partners, children, and others.

In these articles, we dive into the issues shaping and influencing child and adolescent mental health. You’ll learn how therapy’s thought leaders address family dynamics, from working with boundaries and cutoffs to early attachment, parental neglect, and child abuse.

Learn from Nedra Glover Tawwab, Lindsay Gibson, Sal Minuchin, Mona Delahooke, Lori Gottlieb, and others.

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Family Dynamics

Articles in this category explore how the relational patterns we’re born into ultimately shape our view of, and experiences with, the world and ourselves. Throughout, you’ll find stories and insights into therapy’s role in helping real families that have lived, clashed, and grown together across the lifespan.




More Articles on Children, Parents & Families

Cutting family members off is one of the most fraught decisions a client can make—and one of the hardest to navigate as a therapist. Read more

There's power in asking our clients—and ourselves a radical question: What do you want? Not, what do you think you should want, but what do you actually want? Read more

Psychologist Jonice Webb—who named childhood emotional neglect—shares how to spot it, treat it, and help clients transform it. Read more

Why do so many parents struggle with trusting themselves, and how can we help them conquer self-doubt? Read more

Parental guilt is often misunderstood by clinicians. The Change Triangle can bring this tricky emotion out into the open and help people work through it. Read more

Decades later, a psychotherapist returns to summer camp, this time as an employee, and discovers the true meaning of growth and community. Read more

Genetic testing has led to shocking "DNA discoveries"—secrets unburied, followed by pain, grief, and trauma. Here's how therapists can help. Read more

Are some things really best left unsaid? Years after a near-death experience, a father contemplates telling his daughter what kept him alive. Read more

Here's a four-step exercise therapists can use to help survivors of parental abandonment process trauma triggers. Read more

We all know that there’s no such thing as a “perfect” parent, but even so, many parents hold themselves to unreasonably high standards. Read more

An unflinching look into a shadowy corner of the for-profit troubled teen industry: wilderness therapy. Read more

A mother’s lonely quest to help her undiagnosed Autistic child leads her on a wild goose chase for solutions. Read more

Given our culture's incessant messages about the joys of motherhood, it's critical for therapists to help new moms to speak openly and honestly about their... Read more

Here's a five-step process for working with survivors of parental abandonment that helps mitigate self-blame and build trust with the therapist. Read more

The way neglect can shape a child’s brain is often misunderstood. Read more

Do interpersonal conflicts about environmental choices require a unique approach to boundary setting? Read more

The prescriptive, one-size-fits-all version of “gentle parenting” promoted on social media may work with many kids, but for parents of “big reactors,”... Read more

Building a trusting relationship with a surrogate requires a wide array of interpersonal and self-regulation skills— and can be the ultimate exercise in... Read more

Rather than a deficiency, “mommy brain” is an asset—and therapists can help their clients embrace it in the workplace. Read more

With so many newer approaches focusing on here-and-now experiences, are we forgetting about psychotherapy’s foundation of exploring childhood wounds? Read more

Understanding the impact of “resemblance talk” and the challenge of “parental claiming” can help the parents of donor-conceived children feel... Read more

What happens when a whole generation of children are overprotected on the playground and underprotected online? Read more

Janina Fisher explores how to help your clients heal the parts of self-hatred and treat attachment trauma. Read more

A family with stark religious differences finds its way. Read more

The PACE attitude is a way of interacting with your child, especially around difficult topics or situations, that will help them feel less defensive and more... Read more

Is there anything trickier for modern-day parents than separating a 13-year-old from an iPhone, even if it’s just for a few days? Read more

Author Lindsay Gibson reveals how exploring our parents’ emotional lack of maturity can free us up to become more emotionally mature ourselves. Read more

In a world that seems to reward narcissists, how can we help parents raise kind, empathetic kids with a healthy, balanced sense of self? Read more

When a hoarding mother won’t face her illness, what choice does a daughter have? Read more

Senior writer/editor Alicia Muñoz talks with author, therapist, and Instagram influencer Nedra Glover Tawwab about boundaries and maintaining drama-free... Read more

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