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A new documentary on comedian Darrell Hammond’s life spotlights the legacy of childhood trauma. Read more
ABCs of Mindfulness
Helping Children Manage StressAdapting mindfulness practices for young kids can be as easy as ABC. Read more
Bowing Out
The Dilemma of UncouplingIf a loving couple shares a relationship history with no major deal-breaker issues, is “uncoupling” the best path? Read more
Research or Reality?
The Flawed Science of PsychotherapyAs academic researchers continue the push for manualized, protocol-driven therapy, a psychodynamic therapist pushes back. Read more
The Myth of the Gendered Brain
What the Latest Science Tells UsA new book debunks some fundamental myths about gender. Read more
The Family Album
Growing Up in the Shadow of DepressionA troubled father casts a mysterious shadow over a little girl’s world. Read more
Taking Charge with Difficult Teens
...And the Four Most Common Mistakes Therapists MakeWhen working with teens, a therapist must become comfortable with the idea of dealing with power tactics rather than communication skills. Here are four common... Read more
The Do's and Don'ts of Self-Disclosure
Avoiding Ethical PitfallsWhen I've asked people who've gone to therapy what was most helpful, again and again, they've described times when their therapists shared something about... Read more
VIDEO: Esther Perel on the New Landscape of Love
What Role Do Therapists Play?Our relational lives are undergoing a radical shift, says couples therapist Esther Perel, bestselling author of The State of Affairs and Mating in Captivity... Read more
Self-Compassion for Painful Emotions
An Eight-Step Practice for Parents“I’m so distressed,” Stephanie said, immediately reaching for the box of tissues in our first session. “I’ve never felt this much sadness in my... Read more
VIDEO: Learning to Draw the Line
A Special Story about Working with Difficult ClientsAlthough it’s not usually acknowledged, change in the consulting room goes both ways. Even as they help clients wrestle with their issues, it’s the rare... Read more
VIDEO: Crossing to Safety
A Master Clinician Shares Her Most Therapeutic MomentOf all the meaningful sessions that take place in a therapist’s career, what makes certain ones stand out? Sometimes, it’s taking creative leaps in... Read more
VIDEO: Continuing to See Kids for Therapy as They Age
...And Why They Need Ongoing Connection Now More Than EverWhen therapists work with anxious kids and their families, they’re often solving immediate problems, not envisioning a clinical relationship that could last... Read more
VIDEO: Esther Perel on Speaking About Sex
Getting Comfortable in Couples TherapyMany traditional approaches to couples therapy are built on the assumption that if you help a couple clear up the emotional issues in their relationship, sex... Read more
Will a No-Suicide Contract Help My Client Stay Safe?
Four Clinicians Weigh InA new clinician is working with a client who’s expressed some suicidality at times. She's worried about him and thinks it might be a good idea to have him... Read more
Learning to Bear the Unbearable
How MDMA WorksBessel van der Kolk assesses the importance and possible impact of the growing psychedelic-therapy movement. Read more
VIDEO: Bill Doherty on Deepening Our Therapeutic Vision
The Importance of Cultivating a New Kind of SelfAt the 2016 Psychotherapy Networker Symposium, Bill Doherty offered his take on how psychotherapy can reassert its cultural relevance by deepening its vision... Read more
After the Affair
Two Case Studies Illustrate the Opportunities Moving ForwardThis article first appeared in the May/June 1989 issue. Back in the 1950s, Debbie Reynolds and Eddie Fisher, Hollywood’s perfect young couple, shocked... Read more
Finding the Path Back
Couples Therapy After an AffairEditor’s Note: This blog is excerpted from a piece that originally appeared in our September/October 1994 issue, Parents Under Siege. Do you think its... Read more
Something's Missing from Family Therapy
Twenty-Five Years Later, a Poignant Message from the Late Betty Carter Still ResonatesIn order to understand the particularity of almost any couple's personal experience, we need to adjust our lens to include not only their private domestic... Read more
VIDEO: Learning to Let Go of Trauma
Bessel van der Kolk on the Power of Creating a NarrativeImagine the helplessness of being unable to distinguish painful past experiences from present ones. According to Bessel van der Kolk, author of The Body Keeps... Read more
Resurrecting Therapy
Putting Big Pharma on the CouchIn 1986, people being treated for depression were twice as likely to be in therapy as to be taking pills. Now, for every person in therapy, there are four... Read more
Whatever one’s position on abortion, it’s hard to dispute that the debate has ramped up radically over the last year. Read more
When to Speak Up
Handling Microagressions in TherapyWhat to do about addressing microaggressions in therapy. Read more
The Problem with the Borderline Diagnosis
Getting Beyond the LabelHave we unfairly pathologized clients diagnosed with borderline personality disorder? Read more
Immigration and Trauma
How Can Therapists Help?How therapists can help the traumatized community of immigrants and asylum seekers. Read more
Breaking the Unspoken Rule
A MeToo Memory Offers HealingA MeToo memory leads a mother and daughter to connection and healing. Read more
The dimensions of the opioid epidemic are staggering, and the national conversation around drug abuse has begun to change. Today, more and more voices are... Read more
The Challenge of Harm Reduction
Changing Attitudes Toward Addiction TreatmentUntil they’ve done the challenging and sometimes painful work in therapy, many people can’t even begin to imagine curtailing their drug use. For them... Read more
High Times in Therapy
Are We Ready to Talk Pot?Thirty-three states and the District of Columbia have legalized medicinal or recreational marijuana, or both. But sizeable protests against legalization are... Read more