Contributed by Marian Sandmaier
A Therapy Session With Friends
An Untapped Resource for Emotional HealthThere are no formalized rituals, rules, or obligations to ground or support a friendship. Should therapists change that? Read more
The Heart of Gladness
Why Joy and Sorrow Need Each OtherAcclaimed poet and essayist Ross Gay considers the “wild and unboundaried solidarity” that joy can bring into our lives. Read more
The Trouble with Teen Girls
A Conversation with Donna Jackson NakazawaWatch this Networker Live event with "Girls on the Brink" author Donna Jackson Nakazawa. Read more
Why Are Today’s Girls So Troubled?
A Neurobiological Guide for Parents"Girls on the Brink" presents new knowledge on girls' higher risk for mental health problems—and suggests what parents can do about it. Read more
Living in the Light
Interview with Author Mary Pipher on her new memoirWe sat down with prolific author Mary Pipher for a candid discussion of the interplay of darkness and light in every life. Read more
Leaning toward the Light
Mary Pipher Turns Her Gaze InwardIn her new memoir, Mary Pipher refuses to dumb down what it takes to create a rewarding life. Read more
Hanging Out with Dick Van Dyke
A Lesson in Stepping UpAn encounter with a superstar teaches a young woman about courage. Read more
Celebrating the Creative Journey
A Writer's RemembranceEven for seasoned writers, being edited by Rich wasn't an easy process, but it led them to the murky, half-buried thing waiting below the surface—the thing... Read more
Teach Your Children Well
Can Therapists Help Parents Raise Antiracist Kids?If ever there was a moment to talk with children about racism and antiracism, it’s now. But how, exactly? Read more
Facing the Challenge
Psychotherapy Responds to the PandemicIf ever a conference devoted to “The Art of Healing in an Anxious Time” was needed, this is that time. Read more
Spearheaded by high school students and supported by some influential adults, a movement is underway to mandate a limited number of mental health days as part... Read more
Whatever one’s position on abortion, it’s hard to dispute that the debate has ramped up radically over the last year. Read more
When Therapy Changes the Therapist
Five Tales of Self-DiscoveryAlthough it’s not usually acknowledged, change in the consulting room goes both ways. Even as they help clients wrestle with their issues, it’s the rare... Read more
Always on Call
When Disaster Strikes, Jim Gordon Gets to WorkWherever people have been uprooted and stripped raw by the devastating force of war, sudden violence, or natural disaster, you’re likely to find Jim Gordon... Read more
In the Shadow of Depression
How Can We Manage to Stay Well?Most clinicians know that if a person has suffered one bout of serious depression, he or she is much more vulnerable to another one. But most therapists still... Read more
Moments of Truth
Stories Told at the End of the DayIn our own small way, the Networker has tried to revive the ancient, tribal practice of storytelling. At our third annual Symposium storytelling event, five... Read more
Occupational Wisdom
What Therapists Can Teach Us about Growing Old GracefullyDoes being a therapist give us an edge in coping with the inescapable phenomenon of aging? Three prominent psychotherapists—Irvin Yalom, Joan Klagsbrun, and... Read more
Facing a Parent's Decline
Helping Grown Children and Aging Parents Learn to Nurture Each OtherNearly all therapists will soon be working with substantial numbers of aging families, whether or not they ever consciously choose to. The question at hand... Read more
The Tony Robbins Experience
What’s the Takeaway for Therapists?Despite his four decades in the public eye, most therapists are only vaguely aware of Tony Robbins and his take on personal change. But if you attract millions... Read more
Doorways to the Embodied Self
Eugene Gendlin and the Felt SenseEugene Gendlin and his work on Focusing and the “felt sense” left an indelible mark on modern mind–body approaches to psychotherapy. Read more
When All Else Fails
Stories of Vulnerability and PossibilityThe self-assurance of expert practitioners who publicly present their work can lead everyday therapists to believe that psychotherapy is a far more predictable... Read more
Leaping for Joy
The Secret Lives of ChildrenRecalling a time when kids were supposed to be out of the house—and their parents’ hair—as much as possible. Read more
Then, Now & Tomorrow
Oral Histories of Psychotherapy 1978-2017A group of innovators and leaders look back over different realms of therapeutic practice and offer their view of the eureka moments, the mistakes and... Read more
Left to Our Own Devices
Sorting Through The Bewildering World Of Therapeutic AppsMobile apps offer tools for everything from depression, social anxiety, and binge eating to phobias, OCD, postpartum problems, and substance abuse recovery. In... Read more
What's Your Most Memorable Therapeutic Moment?
Six Master Clinicians Share Their ReflectionsOf all the meaningful sessions that take place in a therapists's career, what makes certain ones stand out? We asked six widely respected clinicians to tell... Read more
It Takes A Tribe
What It's Like to Raise (or Be) a Transgender ChildUntil very recently, most families with transgender children had never met another family like theirs. Now parents and children from the trailblazing Ackerman... Read more
The Last Dance
Awakening a Mother’s Joyful SpiritToward the end of her life, a woman turns back the clock by performing the goofy ballet of her youth. Read more
What the Cactus Knew
The Reward of Not Getting What You WantA much-anticipated vacation demonstrates the rewards of not getting what you want. Read more
Coming Full Circle
Learning to Choose Where You LookUnderstanding your place in the great circle of life is often a matter of where you choose to look. Read more
Who Do You Think You Are?
The Enduring Mystery of TemperamentClinicians have long considered theories that emphasize inborn predispositions as antiquated and even reactionary. but the work of researchers like Jerome... Read more
Time Traveler
An Empty Nest Can Portend a Freer LifeLife in the empty nest can be humbling, exhilarating, and occasionally, just plain weird. Read more
Listening for Zebras
A mother learns to trust her animal instinctsSometimes, raising a child is less an act of love than something much wilder. Read more
Flying Lessons
Discovering Another Way of BeingIn a single, unforeseen moment, a self-lacerating young woman takes a risk and discovers, deep in her bones, why we're alive. Read more
More than Love
The Parents of Adolescents Go Through Their Own Tumultuous PassageFor parents who are chronically pressed for time and feel increasingly impotent in the face of the perils that litter their teen's lives, backing off from... Read more
The Gift of Friendship
Bringing an Invaluable Resource into the Therapy RoomWe're pairing up later, splitting up faster, remarrying less often and increasingly deciding to avoid the whole quagmire by staying permanently single. In... Read more
What does account for a goodly chunk of the positive change that clients experience from therapy, the outcome research shows, is the time-honored therapeutic... Read more
Marian Sandmaier
Marian Sandmaier is the author of two nonfiction books, Original Kin: The Search for Connection Among Adult Sisters and Brothers (Dutton-Penguin) and The Invisible Alcoholics: Women and Alcohol Abuse in America (McGraw-Hill). She is Features Editor at Psychotherapy Networker and has written for the New York Times Book Review, the Washington Post, and other publications. Sandmaier has discussed her work on the Oprah Winfrey Show, the Today Show, and NPR’s “All Things Considered” and “Fresh Air.” On several occasions, she has received recognition from the American Society of Journalists and Authors for magazine articles on psychology and behavior. Most recently, she won the ASJA first-person essay award for her article “Hanging Out with Dick Van Dyke” on her inconvenient attack of shyness while interviewing. You can learn more about her work at www.mariansandmaier.net.