November/December 2024

Narcissistic Abuse Exposed

Healing the Effects of Gaslighting and Coercive Control
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Editor's Note

Livia Kent

The more informed we are about narcissistic abuse and coercive control, the more we can support... Read more

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Parenting with a Coercive Controller

Repairing Attachment When Children Get Weaponized

The arrival of children in a coercively controlling relationship adds a complicated abuse accelerant. Read more

Living with Narcissistic Abuse

How to Heal When Leaving Isn’t an Option

Maintaining a sense of well-being with a narcissist requires clarity, clear expectations, and self-compassion. Read more

Male Abuse Survivors

Bringing a Fuller Picture of Suffering to Light

Why aren't we doing more to support male survivors of intimate partner violence? Read more

Black Women and Intimate Partner Violence

When Seeking Help Isn’t Safe

Seeking protection from a violent relationship is difficult enough on its own, but for Black women, the problem is compounded many times over. Read more

When Your Client Goes to Family Court

The Truth about Documenting Sessions

How you document sessions with clients in emotionally abusive relationships can either help or harm them in family court. Read more

Healing the Covert Narcissist

When Early Trauma Meets Entitlement

Entitlement, the characteristic that best indicates when coercive control is narcissistically driven, makes treating perpetrators challenging—but not... Read more

When Burnout Threatens Therapy with Survivors

Cultivating Your Stamina as a Therapist

Even experienced clinicians can start to feel lost when helping people untangle the psychological effects of coercive control. Read more

Facing Post-Separation Abuse

Sometimes the Breakup Isn't the End

Post-separation abuse can easily masquerade as a simple "bad breakup." Read more

Saving No-Fault Divorce

What's at Stake for Women in Abusive Marriages?

The current political push to eliminate no-fault divorce is dangerous, particularly for women in abusive relationships. Read more

Just because a relationship isn't physically violent doesn't mean emotional abuse won't turn violent. Read more

Extra Features

The Anxious Therapist

Harnessing Your Discomfort in Sessions

We can use our discomfort with clients to learn how to help them. Read more

Soothing Dysregulation in Couples Therapy

The One Thing We Should All Do First

Is teaching partners to join forces against their stress where all couples work should begin? Read more

Departments

The Neurofeedback Question

100-Year-Old Miracle or Runaway Train?

Shaping Consensual Nonmonogamy Agreements

The Five Steps Therapists Need to Consider

Beliefs and Misbeliefs

Countering the Illusion of Explanatory Depth

Grandma Chin's Funeral

Reflections on Grief and Belonging
Practice Tools November 7, 2024

FREE Clinical Worksheets

Tools for Releasing Pain and Remembering Love

This month’s free practice tool is from David Kessler and offers clients a way to accept losses and express the unexpressed. Read more

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