
In The Therapy Room
True tales and lessons from the therapist’s chairThe Power of Secure Attachment
Offering Deep Relatedness from the Very First SessionDiane Poole Heller, an expert in trauma and attachment, on helping clients find their way back to meaningful, safe relationships. Read more
In Or Out?
Treating the Mixed-Agenda CoupleAt least 30 percent of couples coming to therapy have fundamentally different agendas about whether to try to save the marriage. If we’re ever going to... Read more
A Matter Of Choice
Deciding: to be Right or be Married?Do you want to be right or be married? Okay, now pause, think, breathe . . . and choose between First Consciousness and Second Consciousness. Read more
Therapy in the Round
Group Therapy Offers a Larger Arena for ChangeHow the skills of the group therapist differ from those of the individually-oriented practitioner. Read more
Stop the Merry-Go-Round
Strategies for Angry CouplesWhile partners caught in the anger merry-go-round invariably blame the other, both typically pass the anger back and forth like a shared virus. Read more
The Mindful Swimmer
Staying Afloat in the Rough Seas of RelationshipMindfulness offers tools for navigating the stormy seas of a troubled relationship. Read more
Between Gay and Straight
Honoring a Client's Multiple IdentitiesA middle-aged man facing the challenge of coming out explores the uncharted territory of a "mixed-orientation marriage" Read more
Holding Your Ground with Narcissistic Clients
What to do when your hot buttons get pushedSome practical guidelines for handling confrontive and critical clients. Read more
Take a Breath
Using Yoga to Create a Sense of Well-Being in Your OfficeA variety of easy-to-use yogic breathing techniques can add a new dimension to treatment with depressed and anxious clients. Read more
Addicted to Sex
There are no shortcuts in treating SAEffective work with sex addicts must address deep-seated attachment wounds. Commentary by Joe Kort. Read more
Old Habits Die Hard
Making couples therapy stickIt's one thing to make change happen in a couples session; it's quick another to make those changes tick over time. Read more
Educating Theresa
Sometimes therapy means total commitmentTreating depression requires a commitment to working with mind, body, and spirit. Read more
Heart of the Matter
Helping Couples Find Their Sexual ChemistryWhether they know it or not, what most people are looking for in sex therapy isn't so much a change in specific behaviors as a way of developing a more... Read more
EMDR helps a young Iraq War vet and his wife emerge from the nightmare of his war experience. Read more
Working with Alcoholics
AA as a Crucial Adjunct to TherapyTherapists need to get beyond the common misconception about Alcoholics Anonymous. Read more
The Tao of Improv
Embracing Life on the EdgeImprovisational theater offers a unique way of approaching relationships—and psychotherapy—that's generous rather than closed, support rather than... Read more
Using one's own anger may be the key to success with difficult teen clients. Commentary by Janet Sasson Edgette Read more
Receiving with Grace
Teaching Reluctant Seniors to Accept Help"Many of my older clients and their family caregivers resist accepting help from others. How can I get them to receive the care they need?" Read more
Eros and Aging
Is good enough sex right for you?Despite marketing blitz, Viagra hasn't turned out to be the neat remedy for erectile dysfunction for men over 50 that was promised. Can therapists offer aging... Read more
Tapping into Strengths
A systems approach to resilienceContrary to popular opinion, resilience isn't so much an innate quality as a feature of human connectedness. Read more
Mission Possible
The Art of Engaging Tough TeensWhat to do when your teen clients give you the silent treatment. Read more
Shoplifting, now a worldwide epidemic, is curiously neglected by the mental health field. Read more
When Illness Moves In
Helping Couples Process the Trauma of SicknessThe phrase "in sickness and in health" is a hallowed part of our marriage vows for good reason. As human beings vulnerable to a wide variety of diseases and... Read more
The Teenager Who Was a Liar
Helping a family redefine its storyFacing the challenge of working with a dissembling adolescent in a blended family means changing the "official story" of the problem. Read more
Like a Ghost
Using EMDR to Revive a Traumatized Vet’s MarriageEMDR helps a young Irag War vet and his wife emerge from the nightmare of his war experience. Read more
When Three Threatens Two
Must Parenthood Bring Down the Curtain on Romance?Esther Perel explains why new parents need to prioritize their sex lives instead of leaving at the bottom of the to-do list. Read more
You Mean I'm Not Lazy?
Giving Adult Clients with ADHD the Tools to SucceedFrom July/August 2006 issue, a therapist shares how to help adult clients with ADHD be successful in therapy. Read more
Hungry for Connection
10 Ways to Improve Your Therapy with Adolescent GirlsA veteran therapist draws from her years of clinical practice and personal experiences to meet every teenage client where they are. Read more
Riding the Waves of Grief
Practical Tools for Clients and TherapistsKumar answers a question about how to deal with clients who have suffered devastating losses. The first thing a therapist must do is to reassure the client by... Read more