First Person

Creative personal essays on life and family
Article May 6, 2019

What Greg Taught Me

From Symposium Storytelling Evening 2019

"Even though I’d been out as a gay man for decades, I still felt disgust at my erotic interests. Although several therapists over the years had told me I... Read more

Article May 6, 2019

Therapy in a Challenging World

Highlights from Symposium 2019

Rich Simon, Networker editor, tried to highlight the role therapists can play in a world so turned upside down that "crazy has become the new normal." Read more

Article May 6, 2019

Flourishing as We Age

Highlights from Symposium 2019

Mary Pipher, author of the classic Reviving Ophelia and nine subsequent books, was this year’s recipient of the Networker’s Lifetime Achievement Award for... Read more

Article May 6, 2019

The Best Love Story Ever

Changing the Way We See Connection

Sue Johnson makes an impassioned case for the deeply healing power of intimate connection. Read more

Article May 6, 2019

An Apple Seed and Trained Monkeys

Growing Up Under the Influence of My Big Sister's Imagination

Whether as playmate, protector, or tormentor, a big sister looms large in the imagination of her younger sibling. Read more

Article May 6, 2019

When Therapy Changes the Therapist

Five Tales of Self-Discovery

Although it’s not usually acknowledged, change in the consulting room goes both ways. Even as they help clients wrestle with their issues, it’s the rare... Read more

Article May 6, 2019

Piercing the Illusion of Intimacy

From Symposium Storytelling Evening 2019

“Whoops,” I said, thinking this was a lighthearted moment. “Looks like you should’ve gone with that other psychologist.” But Ted didn’t joke back. Read more

Video March 27, 2019

VIDEO: Joan Borysenko on Sitting with Our Darkest Moments

Moving through a Place between "No Longer" and "Not Yet"

In our stressful, tech-obsessed, and data-based world, psychologist Joan Borysenko reminds us that the nonlinear, nonquantitative wisdom of the heart and... Read more

Video March 20, 2019

VIDEO: When Our Clients Help Us Overcome Our Greatest Fears

A Therapist Shares Her Most Memorable Clinical Experience

Lynn Lyons shares a moving, often hilarious, story about how her young client helped her become a stronger person and a better therapist. Read more

Article March 7, 2019

Welcome to Holland

When Life Takes a Detour

What do you do when your life’s expectations get turned upside down? Read more

Article March 7, 2019

The Shopping Trip

Showing Up Is Its Own Reward

Sometimes you learn your most important life lessons from the person who most frustrates and disappoints you. Read more

Article December 26, 2018

The Freedom Machine

Learning to Leave the Nest

When you’re young, a car isn’t just a car—it can be a freedom machine. Read more

Article November 16, 2018

What Basketball Taught Me About Therapy

Learning to Stay in the Game with Challenging Clients

Basketball has taught me many lessons. I learned about trust, relationships, and teamwork. I learned the power to regulate feelings. It would shape my... Read more

Article November 9, 2018

The Secret of Getting Through

A Profile of an Impressively Unimpressive Therapist

A quick glance a therapist whose young clients rave about her. Read more

Article November 9, 2018

The Inheritance

A Father Passes on a Complicated Legacy

Sometimes family legacies can stir up complicated feelings and outright conflict. Read more

Article September 5, 2018

The Ayahuasca Experience

Is There a Place for Shamanic Wisdom in Western Psychology?

A world-renowned trauma expert shares his personal experience with the power of ayahuasca ceremonies to heal addiction, PTSD, and ingrained patterns that... Read more

Article September 5, 2018

Comfort Me

Embracing Grief in a Laundromat

Confronting grief in a laundromat. Read more

Article August 30, 2018

When Doing Nothing is Everything

Especially with Kids, Learning to Slow Down Is a Precious Gift

When I got sick, something amazing happened: I let go of my agenda. Poof—just like that. In the process, I learned there’s nothing more important than... Read more

Article July 6, 2018

A Journey Through Fire

Surviving When Your Self Is in Ashes

At its worst, depression extinguishes your inner pilot light, depriving you of the substrate that makes you feel real. Sufferers complain of living in a fog... Read more

Article July 6, 2018

One Enchanted Evening

Some Shocking News Brings Back Tender Memories

A man learns shocking news via Facebook about an old flame, which brings back romantic memories of his youth. Read more

Video July 4, 2018

VIDEO: When Sorrow Mixes with Joy

Martha Manning Shares a Moving Personal Story of Hardship, Hope, and Love

A karaoke performance on a psych ward helps a mother and daughter find a way to reconnect. Read more

Video June 20, 2018

VIDEO: David Kessler on Coming to Terms with the End

A Special Storytelling Piece from Our 2018 Symposium

When our clients are facing their own mortality, how can we guide them in a way that's both compassionate and realistic? In the following video, therapist... Read more

Video May 23, 2018

VIDEO: The Hearing

A Therapist Shares Her Most Transformative Session

In our own small way, the Networker has tried to revive the ancient, tribal practice of storytelling. At our third annual Symposium storytelling event, Kirsten... Read more

Article May 9, 2018

On Idealization

Highlights from Symposium 2018

A highlight of this year’s Symposium was iconic therapist Irvin Yalom receiving the Networker Lifetime Achievement Award. In this excerpt from his recent... Read more

Article May 9, 2018

Moments of Truth

Stories Told at the End of the Day

In our own small way, the Networker has tried to revive the ancient, tribal practice of storytelling. At our third annual Symposium storytelling event, five... Read more

Article May 9, 2018

My First Client, My Best Teacher

From an Evening of Storytelling 2018

A challenging client, who won't speak or swallow, teaches a therapist just starting out how to find her own voice. Read more

Article May 9, 2018

The Hearing

From an Evening of Storytelling 2018

A therapist tries to ride to the rescue of an immigrant client in a desperate situation. Read more

Article May 9, 2018

Jimmy

From an Evening of Storytelling 2018

What happens to a buttoned-up young therapist when things get out of hand in his office? Read more

Article May 9, 2018

A Complete Life

From an Evening of Storytelling 2018

A specialist in grief and dying gets an early lesson on what makes up a full life. Read more

Article May 9, 2018

Karaoke on Five South

From an Evening of Storytelling 2018

A karaoke performance on a psych ward helps a mother and daughter find a way to reconnect. Read more

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