First Person

Creative personal essays on life and family
Article January 1, 2017

The Oldest Guy on the Team

Running for Your Life

The joys of being the oldest guy on the team. Read more

Article November 3, 2016

Caught in a Web

A World Where Life Is Always Elsewhere

Every day, every moment, we must wade through the flood of incoming alerts and emails urgently demanding our time and attention, all the while knowing that... Read more

Article November 3, 2016

Intimate Enemies

A Stepson Reconsiders a Long-Held Resentment

A stepson reconsiders a long-held resentment. Read more

Article August 30, 2016

The Unassignables

What Really Gets Handed Down in a Family?

A son’s decision to get married is a rite of passage for the entire family. Read more

Article June 30, 2016

Learning to Manage the OCD Bully

A Therapeutic Odyssey

An OCD sufferer describes the frustrating stops and starts and misdirections of her circuitous search for help in escaping the maze of her family of origin and... Read more

Article June 30, 2016

Kendall’s Prom

A Special Daughter’s Special Night

An young woman with autism celebrates a very special night. Read more

Article May 6, 2016

What's Your Most Memorable Therapeutic Moment?

Six Master Clinicians Share Their Reflections

Of all the meaningful sessions that take place in a therapists's career, what makes certain ones stand out? We asked six widely respected clinicians to tell... Read more

Article March 8, 2016

The Bonds that Sustain Us

A Family Weathers a Time of Uncertainty

What parent doesn’t know the ache of helplessness that comes when you can’t do anything for your child but feel entirely responsible anyway? Read more

Article January 11, 2016

The Last Dance

Awakening a Mother’s Joyful Spirit

Toward the end of her life, a woman turns back the clock by performing the goofy ballet of her youth. Read more

Article January 6, 2016

In Search of the Big Story

Learning to Ask the Beautiful Question

This March, poet, storyteller, and philosopher David Whyte—this year’s Symposium keynoter—returns to Washington DC to share his wisdom. Whyte specializes... Read more

Article November 18, 2015

Saturdays Lost

Revisiting a Bittersweet Ritual

A son remembers a distant father and the bittersweet ritual that bonded them. Read more

Article September 1, 2015

Moments of Meaning

Unexpected Lessons from Practice

Three clinicians share stories of challenging cases that show how the most surprising outcomes often have nothing to do with therapeutic brilliance or... Read more

Article September 1, 2015

A Palm under the Moon

A grandpa’s love story

A young child’s bedroom is a place for magic and enchantment. Read more

Article July 1, 2015

Writing on Water

A Diary of Riding Out the Storm

December 29, 2013. It was still dark as I was walking the unlit path to my friend’s house for our weekly meditation meeting. Suddenly, my feet went out from... Read more

Article July 1, 2015

We’ll Never Be Here Again

Stopping to Listen on a Late-life Passage

Jim and I just celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary by taking a trip to the Pacific Northwest. We travel differently than many of our friends, avoiding... Read more

Article May 1, 2015

Rewriting the 'Difficult Mother' Story

A Son Embraces a New Narrative

Sorting through his mother’s personal files in the wake of her dementia, a son discovers more than he expected. Read more

Article March 1, 2015

Don’t Play It Again, Sam

Chance Encounters Can Change Our Lives

Sometimes chance encounters can change a life. Read more

Article January 1, 2015

Creating a Sacred Space in Therapy

A Conversation with Jack Kornfield

Openness to the larger mystery of our lives can deepen the therapeutic encounter. Read more

Article January 1, 2015

A Little Wiggle Room

It's Never too Late to Change Your Story

It’s never too late to change your story Read more

Article November 12, 2014

Rocking On!

From grief to rebirth

A daughter marvels as her mother goes from grief to an exuberant rebirth. Read more

Article September 11, 2014

Defying Nature’s Odds

Life is the grand exception

From the first cell division to the final journey down the birth canal, risks and dangers abound. Read more

Article July 11, 2014

The Freedom Ride

On the Road with a Restless Woman and Her Son

A woman in a life transition takes her son on an eventful road trip. Read more

Article May 12, 2014

Me and My Belly

A Lifelong Relationship

A middle-aged man explores his troubled relationship with the body his genetics have saddled him with. Read more

Article March 7, 2014

Reading the Lake

After 30 Years, a Sanctuary is Threatened

Our heads may tell us that we need to embrace inevitable changes as we grow older, but our hearts often tell a different story. Read more

Article January 8, 2014

Louder than Words

The Unspoken Code of Fathers and Sons

A Bruce Springsteen song helps crack the unspoken code of father–son communication. Read more

Article November 5, 2013

Permission to Sleep

Accepting a Long Road to Love

A woman discovers that giving someone permission to sleep can be a deep expression of love. Read more

Article September 5, 2013

More More Time

Discovering the Endless Present

A new retiree discovers the elusive secret of the endless present. Read more

Article July 1, 2013

What the Cactus Knew

The Reward of Not Getting What You Want

A much-anticipated vacation demonstrates the rewards of not getting what you want. Read more

Article May 1, 2013

Desperate Love

A Father Faces an Impossible Choice

With his son’s freedom hanging in the balance, a father must decide whether to give the gift of forgiveness one more time. Read more

Article March 14, 2013

After the Anger

Learning to Love an Imperfect Parent

A man entering his sixties discovers some peculiar markers that signal a retreat from old oppositional habits. Read more

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