First Person

Creative personal essays on life and family
Article September 5, 2018

The Ayahuasca Experience

Is There a Place for Shamanic Wisdom in Western Psychology?

A world-renowned trauma expert shares his personal experience with the power of ayahuasca ceremonies to heal addiction, PTSD, and ingrained patterns that... Read more

Article September 5, 2018

Comfort Me

Embracing Grief in a Laundromat

Confronting grief in a laundromat. Read more

Article August 30, 2018

When Doing Nothing is Everything

Especially with Kids, Learning to Slow Down Is a Precious Gift

When I got sick, something amazing happened: I let go of my agenda. Poof—just like that. In the process, I learned there’s nothing more important than... Read more

Article July 6, 2018

A Journey Through Fire

Surviving When Your Self Is in Ashes

At its worst, depression extinguishes your inner pilot light, depriving you of the substrate that makes you feel real. Sufferers complain of living in a fog... Read more

Article July 6, 2018

One Enchanted Evening

Some Shocking News Brings Back Tender Memories

A man learns shocking news via Facebook about an old flame, which brings back romantic memories of his youth. Read more

Video July 4, 2018

VIDEO: When Sorrow Mixes with Joy

Martha Manning Shares a Moving Personal Story of Hardship, Hope, and Love

A karaoke performance on a psych ward helps a mother and daughter find a way to reconnect. Read more

Video June 20, 2018

VIDEO: David Kessler on Coming to Terms with the End

A Special Storytelling Piece from Our 2018 Symposium

When our clients are facing their own mortality, how can we guide them in a way that's both compassionate and realistic? In the following video, therapist... Read more

Video May 23, 2018

VIDEO: The Hearing

A Therapist Shares Her Most Transformative Session

In our own small way, the Networker has tried to revive the ancient, tribal practice of storytelling. At our third annual Symposium storytelling event, Kirsten... Read more

Article May 9, 2018

On Idealization

Highlights from Symposium 2018

A highlight of this year’s Symposium was iconic therapist Irvin Yalom receiving the Networker Lifetime Achievement Award. In this excerpt from his recent... Read more

Article May 9, 2018

Moments of Truth

Stories Told at the End of the Day

In our own small way, the Networker has tried to revive the ancient, tribal practice of storytelling. At our third annual Symposium storytelling event, five... Read more

Article May 9, 2018

My First Client, My Best Teacher

From an Evening of Storytelling 2018

A challenging client, who won't speak or swallow, teaches a therapist just starting out how to find her own voice. Read more

Article May 9, 2018

The Hearing

From an Evening of Storytelling 2018

A therapist tries to ride to the rescue of an immigrant client in a desperate situation. Read more

Article May 9, 2018

Jimmy

From an Evening of Storytelling 2018

What happens to a buttoned-up young therapist when things get out of hand in his office? Read more

Article May 9, 2018

A Complete Life

From an Evening of Storytelling 2018

A specialist in grief and dying gets an early lesson on what makes up a full life. Read more

Article May 9, 2018

Karaoke on Five South

From an Evening of Storytelling 2018

A karaoke performance on a psych ward helps a mother and daughter find a way to reconnect. Read more

Article May 9, 2018

The Rescue

Finding the Courage to Let Go

A whirlwind romance turns into a troubled relationship. Read more

Article March 9, 2018

The End.

How Did I Get Here So Fast?

A classic sci-fi movie that seems to leapfrog through eternity helps a man contemplate the mystery of his own aging. Read more

Article March 9, 2018

Living Backward and Forward

In Search of the Stories that Bind Us

In search of the stories that can bind a family together. Read more

Article March 9, 2018

Occupational Wisdom

What Therapists Can Teach Us about Growing Old Gracefully

Does being a therapist give us an edge in coping with the inescapable phenomenon of aging? Three prominent psychotherapists—Irvin Yalom, Joan Klagsbrun, and... Read more

Article January 8, 2018

Kinship without Connection

Family Means More than Shared DNA

Does sharing DNA with a total stranger automatically make him family? Read more

Article November 1, 2017

Tough Choices

Decisions that Test the Heart

There comes a time in many families when there’s no choice but to face decisions that test the heart. Read more

Article October 17, 2017

When Therapy Takes a Personal Toll

A Therapist Working with Abusers Reaches a Crossroads
Michelle Cacho-Negrette

I made my first appointment with Gloria one autumn afternoon. I needed a still point, a peaceful promontory in the ocean of loud, unrepentant excuses I heard... Read more

Article September 21, 2017

An Awareness of the Soul

What Does It Mean to Really Get in Touch with Yourself?

When I was 5 years old, I experienced something that made me feel viscerally, mentally, emotionally, and inescapably connected to everything and everyone... Read more

Article September 7, 2017

Coping and Learning After a Client's Suicide

A Therapist Reflects on What He Might Have Done Differently

I've been in full-time private practice for almost 30 years. In that time, three patients in my practice killed themselves. Each suicide has left me... Read more

Article September 7, 2017

A Squeeze of the Hand

What Does a Son Owe His Mother?

After a lifetime of conflict, a son faces the question of what he owes his mother. Read more

Article July 12, 2017

Broken Heart Syndrome

Can It Run in the Family?
Gregory Samuels

Can broken hearts run in a family? Read more

Article May 8, 2017

When All Else Fails

Stories of Vulnerability and Possibility

The self-assurance of expert practitioners who publicly present their work can lead everyday therapists to believe that psychotherapy is a far more predictable... Read more

Article May 8, 2017

The life of a seemingly frail 94-year-old takes a surprising turn. Read more

Article May 1, 2017

Editor's Note: May/June 2017

Thoughts on Storytelling

These days, when psychotherapy is supposed to be “evidence based” and “empirically validated,” standardized and manualized up the wazoo, therapists... Read more

Article March 13, 2017

Leaping for Joy

The Secret Lives of Children

Recalling a time when kids were supposed to be out of the house—and their parents’ hair—as much as possible. Read more

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