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The New World of Affair Recovery

AI Infidelity, Betrayal Trauma, & Post-Affair Grief
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Editor's Note

Livia Kent

Today's therapists are being asked to rewrite the playbook on infidelity in a world where intimacy... Read more

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The New World of Affair Recovery

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The New World of Affair Recovery

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Table of Contents

The Betrayal After the Betrayal

How Affair Recovery is Hurting Those It's Meant to Help

Has a field that once shamed the betraying partner overcorrected to where it’s now failing the betrayed? Read more

Grief in Affair Recovery

Understanding Loss Through a Systems Lens

Infidelity doesn’t just wound the betrayed partner—grief ripples through the entire relational system. Sometimes, holding it in unconventional ways... Read more

5 Behaviors that Rebuild Trust After Infidelity

Because Proof You've Changed Can't Regulate a Nervous System

Betrayed partners don’t need perfect apologies. Their nervous systems need a pattern. Read more

The Future of Affairs

Thirds, Therapists, and AI Infidelity

The landscape of infidelity has shifted dramatically—what will it take for our clinical thinking to catch up? Read more

Treating the Affair Partner

How to Help the Overlooked Third in the Infidelity Triangle

It’s easy to dismiss or villainize the affair partner. But when they bring their unique experience into the room, do you know what to do? Read more

The Surprising Truth about Betrayal-Informed Therapy

Confronting the Misapplication of Therapeutic Symmetry

Rushing to repair after betrayal isn’t just premature—it can deepen your clients’ pain. Read more

When Affairs Spark Transformation

Exploring Possibility After the Crisis of Infidelity

Esther Perel revisits former clients to discover what separates the couples who ended up thriving after an affair from those still living in the wreckage of... Read more

Facing Our Field's History of Infidelity Treatment

What's Cringey? What's Compelling?

Four decades of nuggets from our archives trace how our field’s thinking about affairs has evolved—and remind us to hold today’s certainties a little... Read more

Prenup, Meet Therapy

Legal Clarity Doesn't Prevent Emotional Fallout

More and more therapists are helping clients examine the emotional benefits and potential pitfalls of a prenup agreement. Read more

The Couples' Work We Weren't Trained For

Grief, Resilience, and Intimacy in Long-Term Love

A seasoned couples therapist discovers an overlooked stage of love our field may have missed. Read more

Therapy with Marginalized Couples

When Systemic Trauma Disrupts Intimacy

Therapists working with marginalized couples often need to look beyond traditional couples therapy approaches. Read more

Extra Feature

"Quiet" Brainspotting

Trusting the Body's Timing in Therapy

What's really happening in "quiet" Brainspotting sessions? Read more

Departments

Is Moral Injury the Defining Problem of Our Time?

Naming and Treating Trauma’s Most Elusive Dimension

Treating Clients Who Share Your Own Diagnosis

How to Navigate Empathy and Ethical Pitfalls

Passive Suicidality & the Jovial Client

Two Clinicians Respond to Subtle Suicidal Ideation in a First Session

Childhood Emotional Neglect

Treating the Wound That Leaves No Scar

Scott Galloway's Message for Men—Through a Therapist's Lens

What "Notes on Being a Man" Can Offer Your Clients

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