
The Larger Conversation
Ideas that stretch our cultural perspectivesBeloved Stranger
Temperament and the Elusive Concept of NormalityAn understanding of the inborn dimensions of human temperament reveals that the concept of "normal" is far richer and more expansive than previously imagined. Read more
Confronting Subtle Racism in Therapy
A Social Justice Perspective on LanguageIs it appropriate to bring up the use of subtly racist language in a session, even if it doesn’t deal with the client’s presenting issue? Always, says one... Read more
Teacher as Healer
The challenges of the classroom cast the therapist's role in a new lightA good education is preventive medicine. It strengthens one's mental, emotional and spiritual immune system. Read more
Tarnished Crown
Discovering momma and the meaning of lifeTherapists who can surf the transference and countertransference of chronic disappointment by being mindful of their own inner states can find creative... Read more
War Stories
Helping Old Soldiers Find the Will to LiveHelping old soldiers find the will to fight Read more
What Textbooks Don't Tell You
Acknowledging the complexities of real-life therapyAcknowledging the complexities of real-life therapy Read more
A River Runs Through It
When a community tries its best and fails, then what?From the July/August 1997 issue People in North Dakota insist that the land is so flat, they can spot an anthill a half mile away. Local lore says that... Read more
New Science for Psychotherapy
Can we predict how therapy will progress?Psychologists Robert-Jay Green and Paul D. Werner of the California School of Professional Psychology insist that family therapists who don't rethink their... Read more
Truth and Reconciliation?
Healing the wounds of apartheidFrom the May/June 1997 issue “Ordinary South Africans are determined that the past be known, the better to insure that it is not repeated... Read more
The Anatomy of Resilience
New research reveals what helps people shake off adversityWe have clues about what makes some people prevail over psychological adversity... Read more
The Mission Memory
Furnishing our Present with Specters of the PastEvery response, belief, action, and emotion can be seen as a wave of memory. The present is gauged by how much it joins or fails our memories. So what is the... Read more
Breathing Room
Creating a Zone of Safety and Connection for Angry Black TeensTherapy is about healing and also about promoting connection. The healing starts when we lance the wounds our clients bring in, help them vent their pain and... Read more
More than Love
The Parents of Adolescents Go Through Their Own Tumultuous PassageFor parents who are chronically pressed for time and feel increasingly impotent in the face of the perils that litter their teen's lives, backing off from... Read more
I Gave at the Office
Men and the Romance of WorkWhat draws so many men to define their manhood through work success, and how can therapists help men--and the women in their lives--understand what they get... Read more
Work Spirit
Helping People Create More Satisfying Work LivesFew people today are willing to accept a bad relationship, yet many settle for jobs that don't bring out the best in them. Some practical ideas for helping... Read more
In our technological society, real death is hidden away while fantasized deaths are available for viewing in dizzying numbers. It's time to separate our... Read more
Embracing the Both/And in Therapy
Freeing Clients from Narrow ChoicesIn the fluid world of our practices, we must face the truth of opposing truths everyday. Read more
The Gift of Friendship
Bringing an Invaluable Resource into the Therapy RoomWe're pairing up later, splitting up faster, remarrying less often and increasingly deciding to avoid the whole quagmire by staying permanently single. In... Read more
What does account for a goodly chunk of the positive change that clients experience from therapy, the outcome research shows, is the time-honored therapeutic... Read more
The Age of Interruption
On Hold in a Call-Waiting WorldAs today's hyperkinetic families struggle to create the semblance of a shared life out of the frantic and conflicting schedules of their members, the... Read more
Therapy on the information highway a strange fiction based on a stranger reality. Article first published in the September/October 1994 issue. TODAY, IN THE... Read more
The Bottom Line
A primer on managing managed careFrom the July/August 1994 PRIVATE PRACTITIONERS WHO WANT TO SURVIVE TODAY must know how to work smarter, and market and provide quality customer service. It is... Read more
Reality Sucks
Welcome to Generation XFrom the July/August 1994 issue I HAD NEVER HEARD OF KURT COBAIN UNTIL THE OTHER day when he killed himself. Apparently, between suicide attempts, he had been... Read more
Cutting through the isolation of our self-declared tribes Read more
Of course, not everyone's quarrel with PC is the same. Read more
Life can be sweet just play it by the numbers Read more
THE PAST FEW YEARS HAVE NOT#160; been friendly to psychotherapists.#160; Probably no other contemporary field has suffered so many widely publicized body blows... Read more
Millions of learning-disabled adults rely on intellectual guerrilla tactics to survive. Read more