In The Therapy Room

True tales and lessons from the therapist’s chair
Article July 11, 2014

When Talk Isn’t Enough

Easing Trauma’s Lingering Shock

Pioneering trauma expert Bessel van der Kolk shares his thoughts on the differences between public and private trauma. Read more

Video July 10, 2014

VIDEO: Single-Session Cures with Anxiety Problems

Are You Asking the Right Questions?

When it comes to understanding your clients’ inner world, words can only go so far. Clients can use words to tell you what they’re conscious of (“My... Read more

Video May 29, 2014

VIDEO: The Key to Dramatically Accelerating Anxiety Treatment

Being Anxious Doesn’t Mean You’re Anxious to Change

Most therapists assume that, just as any rational person with a broken arm would be an eager customer for medical care, surely a person suffering from severe... Read more

Article May 12, 2014

Outside the Box

Bringing Families into Trauma Treatment

If we don’t open up the one-on-one therapeutic cloister, trauma sufferers may never learn how to engage in the give and take of real-life relationships. By... Read more

Video April 10, 2014

VIDEO: What to Do When Therapy Stalls

Bill Doherty on Handling the Issue of Progress Before it's a Crisis

Bill talks about a proactive approach that can lead to positive developments when therapy starts to stall. Read more

Video April 8, 2014

VIDEO: Letting the Body Lead

Ann Randolph on Truly Embodied Emotion

Ann explains how imbuing body parts with feelings can lead clients to more embodied and clarifying emotional experiences than talk alone can provide. Read more

Video April 1, 2014

VIDEO: Psychotherapy as Experiential Drama

Jeffrey Zeig on Bridging the Gap between Knowing and Realizing

Jeff explains the tools he uses to make therapy a true experience—including trance, novelty, and precision in his use of language, and resonant gestures that... Read more

Video March 18, 2014

Getting to the Heart of the Stuck Couple’s Story

Peggy Papp on Using Metaphor for New Insight, Fresh Language, and Forward Movement

How can a therapist cut through a couples’ intellectualizations, defensiveness, and ritualized use of language? The key is to bypass the language and explore... Read more

Article March 7, 2014

Soft Shock Therapy

The Art of Speaking the Unspeakable

Using humor to help clients reconstruct their problems, even to the point of making parodies of their own dilemmas, can help some them get distance from their... Read more

Video March 6, 2014

VIDEO: Where Do You Want to Take Your Clients?

Courtney Armstrong on Approaching Sessions from a New Angle

Watch this clip to hear Courtney Armstrong talk about a specific client she saw who needed guidance more than she needed understanding. Read more

Video March 5, 2014

Dealing with Dishonesty in Couples Therapy

David Schnarch on Not Taking Lying Personally

Part of the healing process is seeing and understanding how clients operate in their day-to-day existence, so a client who's being dishonest in their life... Read more

Video February 26, 2014

VIDEO: The Inevitability of Challenging Clients

Janina Fisher on Seeing the Cracks in the Foundation

In this clip Janina Fisher talks about how years of experience do not guarantee easy clients and how she reacts when faced with a challenging case. Read more

Video February 20, 2014

When Depressed Clients Blame Themselves

Elisha Goldstein on Treating Depression with Self-Compassion

To help depressed clients figure out what they need to heal, mindfulness specialist Elisha Goldstein has developed several effective self-compassion practices... Read more

Video February 12, 2014

VIDEO: Using Corrective Experiences in Attachment-Based Therapy

Diane Poole Heller on Bringing the Concrete to the Abstract

Diane Poole Heller talks about one of her therapy techniques: Corrective experiences. Read more

Video February 5, 2014

The Therapist as Improv Actor?

Ann Randolph on Using Acting to Access Emotions

Ann Randolph talks about one acting technique in particular that can easily be incorporated into therapy sessions to help clients express their emotions. Read more

Video February 3, 2014

What Type of Depression is It?

Margaret Wehrenberg on Working with Low-Energy Depressed Clients

Margaret Wehrenberg identified specific types of anxious/depressed clients and has honed different treatment techniques that are effective. Read more

Video January 27, 2014

Practicing Meditation Against All Odds

Zindel Segal on the Three-Minute Breathing Space

Zin Segal discusses how clients can achieve mindful awareness of their emotional states in just three minutes. Read more

Video January 15, 2014

How To Follow Clients’ Subtle Clues To Deep Healing Places

Diana Fosha Shares an Example from Her Own Work

Diana Fosha uses an example from her own practice of how therapists can begin to catch incongruity Read more

Video January 13, 2014

Does Your Depressed Client Even Want to Change?

David Burns on Using Paradoxical Agenda Setting

David Burns talks about how to set an agenda for therapy. Read more

Video January 6, 2014

Learning What a Depressed Client Needs

Elisha Goldstein on Individually Treating Cases of Depression

Elisha Goldstein asks clients what they need in tough moments and explains why it helps them learn to trust themselves. Read more

Video December 23, 2013

Working Through the Childhood Wounds that Feed Depression

Judith Beck on Understanding Emotions Intellectually

Judith Beck talks about an intellectual technique that she uses when doing childhood work with adult clients suffering from depression. Read more

Video December 18, 2013

Letting Emotion Out and In

Susan Johnson on the Value of Using Emotion in Couples Work

Susan shares the latest research that backs up the central principle of EFT Read more

Video December 16, 2013

VIDEO: Desiring Change, but Clinging to the Familiar

David Burns on Turning Resistance into the Voice of Change

David Burns discusses the key to reaching resistant clients—and it's not a new technique. Read more

Video December 11, 2013

Coaching with Feeling

Jeff Auerbach on the Key Differences Between Therapy and Coaching

Jeff Auerbach discusses the differences between therapy and coaching. Read more

Article November 14, 2013

Facing a Fear of Confrontation in Couples Therapy

When Couples Issues Hit Close to Home, Moving Forward Means Putting Aside the Fear of Confrontation
Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson

We frequently need to confront our clients, and putting aside a fear of confrontation—not to mention a fear of losing clients—means that we must risk the... Read more

Video September 26, 2013

VIDEO: Anxiety as a GPS

Danie Beaulieu On How to Make Panic An Ally

Danie Beaulieu explains how panic can function as the voice of clients’ internal GPS, telling them when they are making a “wrong turn” in their lives. Read more

Article September 5, 2013

A Suicide Note In Crayon

Expecting the Unexpected at PS 48

To work as a school social worker in the Bronx’s high-crime, low-income Hunt’s Point neighborhood is to become an expert at expecting the unexpected. Read more

Video July 29, 2013

James Gordon shares a technique he uses with clients to help them get out of hopeless thought patterns. Read more

Article May 1, 2013

Depathologizing the Borderline Client

Learning to Manage Our Fears

Inevitably, given their history of trauma, many borderline clients will trigger their therapists from time to time. But forgoing the urge to blame these... Read more

Article November 1, 2012

The Art of the First Session

Getting It Right From the Start

You never get a second chance to have a first session, so make the most of it. Read more

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