In The Therapy Room

True tales and lessons from the therapist’s chair
Video October 2, 2012

The Power of Secure Attachment

Offering Deep Relatedness from the Very First Session

Diane Poole Heller, an expert in trauma and attachment, on helping clients find their way back to meaningful, safe relationships. Read more

Article November 1, 2011

In Or Out?

Treating the Mixed-Agenda Couple

At least 30 percent of couples coming to therapy have fundamentally different agendas about whether to try to save the marriage. If we’re ever going to... Read more

Article November 1, 2011

A Matter Of Choice

Deciding: to be Right or be Married?

Do you want to be right or be married? Okay, now pause, think, breathe . . . and choose between First Consciousness and Second Consciousness. Read more

Article November 1, 2010

Therapy in the Round

Group Therapy Offers a Larger Arena for Change

How the skills of the group therapist differ from those of the individually-oriented practitioner. Read more

Article November 1, 2010

Stop the Merry-Go-Round

Strategies for Angry Couples
W. Robert Nay & Ronald Potter-Efron

While partners caught in the anger merry-go-round invariably blame the other, both typically pass the anger back and forth like a shared virus. Read more

Article July 1, 2010

The Mindful Swimmer

Staying Afloat in the Rough Seas of Relationship
Karen Kissell Wegela

Mindfulness offers tools for navigating the stormy seas of a troubled relationship. Read more

Article May 6, 2010

Between Gay and Straight

Honoring a Client's Multiple Identities
Jeff Levy & Jean Malpas

A middle-aged man facing the challenge of coming out explores the uncharted territory of a "mixed-orientation marriage" Read more

Article May 1, 2010

Game On!

Bringing the locker room into the consulting room

Although therapy is often considered a profession dominated by the female sensibility, a lifelong gym rat, much practiced in the arts of masculine aggression... Read more

Article May 1, 2010

Holding Your Ground with Narcissistic Clients

What to do when your hot buttons get pushed

Some practical guidelines for handling confrontive and critical clients. Read more

Article March 1, 2010

Take a Breath

Using Yoga to Create a Sense of Well-Being in Your Office

A variety of easy-to-use yogic breathing techniques can add a new dimension to treatment with depressed and anxious clients. Read more

Article March 1, 2010

Addicted to Sex

There are no shortcuts in treating SA
Alexandra Katehakis

Effective work with sex addicts must address deep-seated attachment wounds. Commentary by Joe Kort. Read more

Article January 1, 2010

Old Habits Die Hard

Making couples therapy stick

It's one thing to make change happen in a couples session; it's quick another to make those changes tick over time. Read more

Article January 1, 2010

Educating Theresa

Sometimes therapy means total commitment

Treating depression requires a commitment to working with mind, body, and spirit. Read more

Article November 1, 2009

Heart of the Matter

Helping Couples Find Their Sexual Chemistry

Whether they know it or not, what most people are looking for in sex therapy isn't so much a change in specific behaviors as a way of developing a more... Read more

Article September 25, 2009

EMDR helps a young Iraq War vet and his wife emerge from the nightmare of his war experience. Read more

Article March 1, 2009

Working with Alcoholics

AA as a Crucial Adjunct to Therapy
Mark Schenker

Therapists need to get beyond the common misconception about Alcoholics Anonymous. Read more

Article January 1, 2009

The Tao of Improv

Embracing Life on the Edge

Improvisational theater offers a unique way of approaching relationships—and psychotherapy—that's generous rather than closed, support rather than... Read more

Article October 18, 2008
Victor Shklyarevsky and Kimball Magoni

Using one's own anger may be the key to success with difficult teen clients. Commentary by Janet Sasson Edgette Read more

Article October 18, 2008

Receiving with Grace

Teaching Reluctant Seniors to Accept Help

"Many of my older clients and their family caregivers resist accepting help from others. How can I get them to receive the care they need?" Read more

Article July 1, 2008

Eros and Aging

Is good enough sex right for you?
Michael Metz, Barry McCarthy, & Gina Ogden

Despite marketing blitz, Viagra hasn't turned out to be the neat remedy for erectile dysfunction for men over 50 that was promised. Can therapists offer aging... Read more

Article May 1, 2008

Tapping into Strengths

A systems approach to resilience

Contrary to popular opinion, resilience isn't so much an innate quality as a feature of human connectedness. Read more

Article January 1, 2008

Mission Possible

The Art of Engaging Tough Teens

What to do when your teen clients give you the silent treatment. Read more

Article July 1, 2007

Shoplifting, now a worldwide epidemic, is curiously neglected by the mental health field. Read more

Article May 1, 2007

When Illness Moves In

Helping Couples Process the Trauma of Sickness

The phrase "in sickness and in health" is a hallowed part of our marriage vows for good reason. As human beings vulnerable to a wide variety of diseases and... Read more

Article March 1, 2007

The Teenager Who Was a Liar

Helping a family redefine its story
Salvador Minuchin, Michael P. Nichols, and Wai-Yung Lee

Facing the challenge of working with a dissembling adolescent in a blended family means changing the "official story" of the problem. Read more

Article January 1, 2007

Like a Ghost

Using EMDR to Revive a Traumatized Vet’s Marriage

EMDR helps a young Irag War vet and his wife emerge from the nightmare of his war experience. Read more

Article September 2, 2006

When Three Threatens Two

Must Parenthood Bring Down the Curtain on Romance?

Esther Perel explains why new parents need to prioritize their sex lives instead of leaving at the bottom of the to-do list. Read more

Article July 1, 2006

You Mean I'm Not Lazy?

Giving Adult Clients with ADHD the Tools to Succeed
Ari Tuckman

From July/August 2006 issue, a therapist shares how to help adult clients with ADHD be successful in therapy. Read more

Article July 1, 2006

Hungry for Connection

10 Ways to Improve Your Therapy with Adolescent Girls

A veteran therapist draws from her years of clinical practice and personal experiences to meet every teenage client where they are. Read more

Article March 1, 2006

Riding the Waves of Grief

Practical Tools for Clients and Therapists

Kumar answers a question about how to deal with clients who have suffered devastating losses. The first thing a therapist must do is to reassure the client by... Read more

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