In The Therapy Room
True tales and lessons from the therapist’s chairCoaching with Feeling
Jeff Auerbach on the Key Differences Between Therapy and CoachingJeff Auerbach discusses the differences between therapy and coaching. Read more
Facing a Fear of Confrontation in Couples Therapy
When Couples Issues Hit Close to Home, Moving Forward Means Putting Aside the Fear of ConfrontationWe frequently need to confront our clients, and putting aside a fear of confrontation—not to mention a fear of losing clients—means that we must risk the... Read more
VIDEO: Anxiety as a GPS
Danie Beaulieu On How to Make Panic An AllyDanie Beaulieu explains how panic can function as the voice of clients’ internal GPS, telling them when they are making a “wrong turn” in their lives. Read more
A Suicide Note In Crayon
Expecting the Unexpected at PS 48To work as a school social worker in the Bronx’s high-crime, low-income Hunt’s Point neighborhood is to become an expert at expecting the unexpected. Read more
James Gordon shares a technique he uses with clients to help them get out of hopeless thought patterns. Read more
Creating Adventure And Play In Therapy
How to Vitalize Your Therapeutic StyleTo have real therapeutic impact, we need to help clients learn to relate to themselves and the world in entirely new ways. Read more
Depathologizing the Borderline Client
Learning to Manage Our FearsInevitably, given their history of trauma, many borderline clients will trigger their therapists from time to time. But forgoing the urge to blame these... Read more
The Art of the First Session
Getting It Right From the StartYou never get a second chance to have a first session, so it's important to make the most of it. Read more
The Power of Secure Attachment
Offering Deep Relatedness from the Very First SessionDiane Poole Heller, an expert in trauma and attachment, on helping clients find their way back to meaningful, safe relationships. Read more
A Matter Of Choice
Deciding: to be Right or be Married?Do you want to be right or be married? Okay, now pause, think, breathe . . . and choose between First Consciousness and Second Consciousness. Read more
In Or Out?
Treating the Mixed-Agenda CoupleAt least 30 percent of couples coming to therapy have fundamentally different agendas about whether to try to save the marriage. If we’re ever going to... Read more
Therapy in the Round
Group Therapy Offers a Larger Arena for ChangeHow the skills of the group therapist differ from those of the individually-oriented practitioner. Read more
Stop the Merry-Go-Round
Strategies for Angry CouplesWhile partners caught in the anger merry-go-round invariably blame the other, both typically pass the anger back and forth like a shared virus. Read more
The Mindful Swimmer
Staying Afloat in the Rough Seas of RelationshipMindfulness offers tools for navigating the stormy seas of a troubled relationship. Read more
Between Gay and Straight
Honoring a Client's Multiple IdentitiesA middle-aged man facing the challenge of coming out explores the uncharted territory of a "mixed-orientation marriage" Read more
Holding Your Ground with Narcissistic Clients
What to do when your hot buttons get pushedSome practical guidelines for handling confrontive and critical clients. Read more
Take a Breath
Using Yoga to Create a Sense of Well-Being in Your OfficeA variety of easy-to-use yogic breathing techniques can add a new dimension to treatment with depressed and anxious clients. Read more
Addicted to Sex
There are no shortcuts in treating SAEffective work with sex addicts must address deep-seated attachment wounds. Commentary by Joe Kort. Read more
Old Habits Die Hard
Making couples therapy stickIt's one thing to make change happen in a couples session; it's quick another to make those changes tick over time. Read more
Educating Theresa
Sometimes therapy means total commitmentTreating depression requires a commitment to working with mind, body, and spirit. Read more
Heart of the Matter
Helping Couples Find Their Sexual ChemistryWhether they know it or not, what most people are looking for in sex therapy isn't so much a change in specific behaviors as a way of developing a more... Read more
Using EMDR to Revive a Traumatized Vet's Marriage
Working with War MemoriesEMDR helps a young Iraq War vet and his wife emerge from the nightmare of his war experience. Read more
Working with Alcoholics
AA as a Crucial Adjunct to TherapyTherapists need to get beyond the common misconception about Alcoholics Anonymous. Read more
The Tao of Improv
Embracing Life on the EdgeImprovisational theater offers a unique way of approaching relationships—and psychotherapy—that's generous rather than closed, support rather than... Read more
Receiving with Grace
Teaching Reluctant Seniors to Accept Help"Many of my older clients and their family caregivers resist accepting help from others. How can I get them to receive the care they need?" Read more
Using one's own anger may be the key to success with difficult teen clients. Commentary by Janet Sasson Edgette Read more
Eros and Aging
Is good enough sex right for you?Despite marketing blitz, Viagra hasn't turned out to be the neat remedy for erectile dysfunction for men over 50 that was promised. Can therapists offer aging... Read more
Tapping into Strengths
A systems approach to resilienceContrary to popular opinion, resilience isn't so much an innate quality as a feature of human connectedness. Read more
Mission Possible
The Art of Engaging Tough TeensWhat to do when your teen clients give you the silent treatment. Read more



