Family Matters
Breaking the Unspoken Rule
A MeToo Memory Offers HealingA MeToo memory leads a mother and daughter to connection and healing. Read more
The Last Joke
The Pathos of a May-December MarriageA shared sense of humor can help couples make heavy issues feel lighter. But what happens when there’s no one there to get the joke? Read more
An Apple Seed and Trained Monkeys
Growing Up Under the Influence of My Big Sister's ImaginationWhether as playmate, protector, or tormentor, a big sister looms large in the imagination of her younger sibling. Read more
The Shopping Trip
Showing Up Is Its Own RewardSometimes you learn your most important life lessons from the person who most frustrates and disappoints you. Read more
The Freedom Machine
Learning to Leave the NestWhen you’re young, a car isn’t just a car—it can be a freedom machine. Read more
Past and Future
A Family Dinner Leads to Reflecting on a LegacyTo my mother, who inherited the holiday after my grandmother's death, producing the seder was nothing short of a colossal chore—a feeling she'd communicate... Read more
The Inheritance
A Father Passes on a Complicated LegacySometimes family legacies can stir up complicated feelings and outright conflict. Read more
Comfort Me
Embracing Grief in a LaundromatConfronting grief in a laundromat. Read more
One Enchanted Evening
Some Shocking News Brings Back Tender MemoriesA man learns shocking news via Facebook about an old flame, which brings back romantic memories of his youth. Read more
The Rescue
Finding the Courage to Let GoA whirlwind romance turns into a troubled relationship. Read more
Living Backward and Forward
In Search of the Stories that Bind UsIn search of the stories that can bind a family together. Read more
Kinship without Connection
Family Means More than Shared DNADoes sharing DNA with a total stranger automatically make him family? Read more
Tough Choices
Decisions that Test the HeartThere comes a time in many families when there’s no choice but to face decisions that test the heart. Read more
A Squeeze of the Hand
What Does a Son Owe His Mother?After a lifetime of conflict, a son faces the question of what he owes his mother. Read more
Broken Heart Syndrome
Can It Run in the Family?Can broken hearts run in a family? Read more
A New Turn in the Road
Life at 94The life of a seemingly frail 94-year-old takes a surprising turn. Read more
Leaping for Joy
The Secret Lives of ChildrenRecalling a time when kids were supposed to be out of the house—and their parents’ hair—as much as possible. Read more
The Oldest Guy on the Team
Running for Your LifeThe joys of being the oldest guy on the team. Read more
Intimate Enemies
A Stepson Reconsiders a Long-Held ResentmentA stepson reconsiders a long-held resentment. Read more
The Unassignables
What Really Gets Handed Down in a Family?A son’s decision to get married is a rite of passage for the entire family. Read more
Kendall’s Prom
A Special Daughter’s Special NightAn young woman with autism celebrates a very special night. Read more
The Bonds that Sustain Us
A Family Weathers a Time of UncertaintyWhat parent doesn’t know the ache of helplessness that comes when you can’t do anything for your child but feel entirely responsible anyway? Read more
The Last Dance
Awakening a Mother’s Joyful SpiritToward the end of her life, a woman turns back the clock by performing the goofy ballet of her youth. Read more
Saturdays Lost
Revisiting a Bittersweet RitualA son remembers a distant father and the bittersweet ritual that bonded them. Read more
A Palm under the Moon
A grandpa’s love storyA young child’s bedroom is a place for magic and enchantment. Read more
We’ll Never Be Here Again
Stopping to Listen on a Late-life PassageJim and I just celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary by taking a trip to the Pacific Northwest. We travel differently than many of our friends, avoiding... Read more
Rewriting the 'Difficult Mother' Story
A Son Embraces a New NarrativeSorting through his mother’s personal files in the wake of her dementia, a son discovers more than he expected. Read more
Don’t Play It Again, Sam
Chance Encounters Can Change Our LivesSometimes chance encounters can change a life. Read more
A Little Wiggle Room
It's Never too Late to Change Your StoryIt’s never too late to change your story Read more
Rocking On!
From grief to rebirthA daughter marvels as her mother goes from grief to an exuberant rebirth. Read more