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The Power of How
Helping Depressed Clients Make Better Choices: An Interview with Michael YapkoOne of the most useful ways of understanding depression is the stress generation model, based on the idea that depressed people need better skills and... Read more
The Ray Rice case evokes a discussion of the many faces of domestic violence. Read more
Enduring recovery from obsessive compulsive disorder means riding out the demands of an inner bully. Read more
Get Out of My Life!
Working with Cut-off Family Members in the Consulting RoomHelping families heal cutoffs is painstakingly delicate work, with a high risk for stumbling over buried land mines. Read more
The Malleability of Memory
Putting Psychotherapy on the Witness StandDuring the false memory controversies of the 1990s, many therapists saw Elizabeth Loftus, one of the most honored psychologists in the history of the field, as... Read more
Face to Face
Virtual reality is no substitute for the real dealResearch increasingly shows that screen time is no substitute for old-fashioned human contact. Read more
Rocking On!
From grief to rebirthA daughter marvels as her mother goes from grief to an exuberant rebirth. Read more
It Takes One to Tango
You Don't Need Both Partners to Do Couples TherapyMany therapists define the type of therapy they practice by taking a head count: if one person is present, they're practicing individual therapy; if two or... Read more
Passionate Marriage
Helping Couples Decode the Language of Their SexualityHow couples behave in bed is a remarkablv authentic expression of their emotional connection-or lack of it. Read more
Rarely is someone always depressed, or always empty, or always without energy, or always suicidal. If you (or the person you’re helping) explores exceptions... Read more
Rediscovering the Myth
For John O'Donohue, Therapy Is a Journey into the Unknown SelfPoet John O'Donohue's introduction to the therapy field came through his unlikely friendship with neuropsychiatrist Daniel Siegel, known for his book The... Read more
VIDEO: Alternatives to Prescribing Meds for Children and Teens
The Need for Treading Softly with Meds and ChildrenSometimes psychoactive medication can work wonders with agitated young clients in the throes of a psychological emergency. But psychiatrist Robert Hedaya, an... Read more
VIDEO: Breathing Techniques that Reduce Anxiety and Stress Quickly
Integrate this Powerful Mood-Regulating Technique into Your WorkAre you at a loss when it comes to helping your high-strung, distressed clients? Maybe you’ve made some progress in helping your clients reduce anxiety, but... Read more
VIDEO: Focusing Techniques in Therapy
A New Practice of Inner ListeningHow can you more effectively work with a client whose emotions have become all-consuming? Read more
VIDEO: When Meds Pave the Way for Successful Therapy
Reducing Arousal with MedsSteven explains that clients are rarely cured by medication or therapy alone. Read more
Cultivating Erotic Intelligence in Couples Therapy
Reconciling Sensuality and DomesticityAmerica, in matters of sex as in much else, seems to be a goal-oriented society that prefers explicit meanings, candor, and "plain speech" to ambiguity and... Read more
VIDEO: Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction and Your Practice
Exploring Sensations with Mindfulness TechniquesClients who struggle with PTSD, depression, and other stress-related conditions may have a tough time staying engaged in the consulting room. No matter how... Read more
VIDEO: Incorporating Energy Psychology in Your Practice
Getting Clients Comfortable with Energy PsychologyIt’s not within the standard protocol of talk therapy to tap on clients’ acupuncture points as they focus on a problem or goal. Even therapists convinced... Read more
What is This Thing Called Love?
The Answers Are Being Discovered in the LaboratoryThe answers to some of the age-old questions about the trajectory of passion and the links between sex and love are being discovered in the research laboratory. Read more
VIDEO: Beginning Therapy with High-Conflict Couples
Tips from Ellyn Bader and Peter PearsonHighly distressed couples seek out help for immediate solutions for their pain and suffering. Why is tackling the issues head-on a big mistake for a therapist? Read more
The Rise of the Two-Dimensional Parent
Are Therapists Seeing a New Kind of Attachment?As we move slowly beyond the great recession, today’s young people are the first American generation in a long while expected to be less well off than their... Read more
The Power of Paying Attention
What Jon Kabat-Zinn Has Against SpiritualityJon Kabat-Zinn, one of the pioneers in mind-body medicine, prefers calling himself a student of Buddhist meditation to a Buddhist, and believes anything can be... Read more
Has the time come to consider whether the profound changes in our economy, technology, and culture over these last couple of decades have opened up a breach in... Read more
The Rise of the Two-Dimensional Parent
Are Therapists Seeing a New Kind of Attachment?We used to think that disordered attachment was the result of early parental neglect or abuse. But today, has a paradoxical mix of parental overinvolvement and... Read more
Bubble-Wrapping Our Children
The Perils of Overprotective ParentingWe've become so focused on keeping children safe that we exaggerate the dangers they face despite the fact that they’ve never been safer. Still, no amount of... Read more
Getting Unhooked
Connecting with Traumatized Kids Who Push Your ButtonsMost parents “loan” children their adult regulatory system beginning at birth. But developmentally traumatized teens have missed out on this opportunity... Read more
The Downside of Happiness
Beware of What You Wish ForAlthough happiness is widely beneficial, organizing one’s life around it can lead to a great deal of effort and time being spent unwisely. Trying too hard to... Read more
Bessel van der Kolk, a leading trauma therapist, takes on the New York Times. Read more
The Power of the Pen in Therapy
Some Journaling Exercises to Enhance Your WorkSome guidelines for bringing the creative power of therapeutic journaling into your work. Read more
Questions of Gender
A therapist struggles with the clinical choices he’s madeA therapist takes an unflinching look at a puzzling case that spanned 14 years, wondering if he made a wrong turn. Read more