
In The Therapy Room
True tales and lessons from the therapist’s chairThe New 'Mixed' Marriage
Working with a couple when one partner is gayIn 2004, the outing of New Jersey Governor James McGreever brought widespread attention to the new "mixed marriage ." But the issues such couples struggle with... Read more
Turning "I Can't" into "I Will"
How to Motivate Depressed ClientsGetting a depressed client mobilized to take the initial steps toward change can be the key to treatment. Read more
Beyond Acceptance
It's Never Too Late to Open Your HeartA woman who wants to learn a new way to be with her mother teaches her therapist what it means to step out of his own comfort zone. Read more
The Awful Truth
Most Men Are Just Not Raised to be IntimateAfter the publication of my book, 'I Don't Want to Talk about It,' I started getting calls from people around the United States who wanted help. Naming the... Read more
Nunna Yer Beeswax
No-talk Therapy with AdolescentsWhat to do when the standard techniques of joining provoke furious silence Read more
A jazz drummer tunes in to how a couple organizes time Read more
Embracing the Both/And in Therapy
Freeing Clients from Narrow ChoicesIn the fluid world of our practices, we must face the truth of opposing truths everyday. Read more
Confronting Homophobia in the Therapy Room
Are We Still in the Dark?From the Networker archives, a therapist discusses homophobia within clinical practice. Read more