
Clinical Practice & Guidance
Tips and techniques from your colleaguesAddicted to Sex
There are no shortcuts in treating SAEffective work with sex addicts must address deep-seated attachment wounds. Commentary by Joe Kort. Read more
Heart of the Matter
Helping Couples Find Their Sexual ChemistryWhether they know it or not, what most people are looking for in sex therapy isn't so much a change in specific behaviors as a way of developing a more... Read more
EMDR helps a young Iraq War vet and his wife emerge from the nightmare of his war experience. Read more
Higher Ground
What Clinicians Should Know about the "Vertical Dimension"Modern therapy has given scant attention to morally elevated emotions like awe, gratitude, and admiration, resulting in a skewed picture of how people actually... Read more
Beyond Right and Wrong
Teaching Couples How To Embrace Fair-MindednessWhat do issues of fairness and relational justice have to do with psychotherapy? Read more
Learning Forgiveness
Peacemaking Skills For CouplesGiven that most couples never manage to change each other very much, teaching them to forgive each other's imperfections is a vastly underutilized therapeutic... Read more
Reversing Chronic Pain
Ten Steps to Reduce SufferingMore and more chronic pain patients are being referred to therapists after their physicians conclude that they show every appearance of being healed. Read more
Working with Alcoholics
AA as a Crucial Adjunct to TherapyTherapists need to get beyond the common misconception about Alcoholics Anonymous. Read more
In a memorable scene in Fiddler on the Roof, the main character, Tevye, pretends to have been awakened by a nightmare that he concocts to convince his wife to... Read more
The Tao of Improv
Embracing Life on the EdgeImprovisational theater offers a unique way of approaching relationships—and psychotherapy—that's generous rather than closed, support rather than... Read more
10 Best-Ever Anxiety-Management Techniques
There are Effective Alternatives to Medication“I don’t think I want to live if I have to go on feeling like this.” I hear this remark all too often from anxiety sufferers. They say it... Read more
Enlisting the ODD Child
How to move beyond the power struggleHelping kids with ODD begins with getting past the many myths surrounding the disorder. Read more
Fantasy in Couples Therapy
Is Encouraging Sexual Fantasies Playing with Fire?Many therapists assume that if they help couples improve their relationships, the improvement will naturally lead to a rewarding erotic life. But what if... Read more
The Healing Power of Play
Helping the traumatized child find safety againThe child therapist approaches the child who can't play by introducing play activities one step at the time. Read more
1. Ride the Rhythms of Rest Fine-tune your circadian rhythms with exposure to morning light. Regularly engage in rest breaks and practices. Consider daily... Read more
Receiving with Grace
Teaching Reluctant Seniors to Accept Help"Many of my older clients and their family caregivers resist accepting help from others. How can I get them to receive the care they need?" Read more
Using one's own anger may be the key to success with difficult teen clients. Commentary by Janet Sasson Edgette Read more
Practice Makes Perfect
There's No Shortcut to Lasting ChangeMany clients believe that the therapy process all by itself will magically improve their lives and relationships. We must help them recognize that without... Read more
The Economics of Romance
Pre-nups and other dirty wordsPrenuptials may seem unromantic and focused on worst-case scenarios, but they can clarify critical issues and avoid problems down the road. Read more
Eros and Aging
Is good enough sex right for you?Despite marketing blitz, Viagra hasn't turned out to be the neat remedy for erectile dysfunction for men over 50 that was promised. Can therapists offer aging... Read more
Tapping into Strengths
A systems approach to resilienceContrary to popular opinion, resilience isn't so much an innate quality as a feature of human connectedness. Read more
Mission Possible
The Art of Engaging Tough TeensWhat to do when your teen clients give you the silent treatment. Read more
Once skeptical about the value of regularly seeking client feedback, therapists at a public agency become true believers. Read more
Shoplifting, now a worldwide epidemic, is curiously neglected by the mental health field. Read more
When Illness Moves In
Helping Couples Process the Trauma of SicknessThe phrase "in sickness and in health" is a hallowed part of our marriage vows for good reason. As human beings vulnerable to a wide variety of diseases and... Read more
Stairway to Heaven
Treating children in the crosshairs of traumaThe tragic confrontation at Waco, Texas, in 1993 taught us much about what to do to help traumatized children, and perhaps even more about what not to do. Read more
No Gurus Need Apply
A Disciplined Protocol for Troubled TeensA professor skeptical of the clinical value of family therapy may be doing more to extend the legacy of systems therapy than anyone working with adolescents... Read more
Avoiding Clinical Drift
Learning how to use CARE with your clientsCBT offers a clinical toolbox that ensures that treatment never becomes merely unfocused chitchat. Read more
Facing Our Worst Fears
Finding the Courage to Stay in the MomentA therapist helps his anxious clients discover that be not resisting what the present moment offers, they can find a way out of their suffering. Read more
Are You There for Me?
Understanding the Foundations of Couples ConflictAnd yet, I wondered, if we didn't have a theory of adult love and emotion, how could we truly understand what marriage was all about, let alone help couples... Read more