
Clinical Practice & Guidance
Tips and techniques from your colleaguesThe Power of Apologizing
What It Takes to Really Be SorryUnlike the faux public apologies from men accused of sexual misconduct that 2017 will likely be remembered for, our private apologies have the potential to... Read more
How To Stop Couples Conflict Before It Even Starts
...And the Five Life Factors That Contribute to Intensifying Anger ArousalTherapy often involves entirely too much talking about new skills the client should put into place, but not enough rehearsing. Just as exposure training... Read more
Therapy and Transformation
What Are We Promising Our Clients?Decades ago, trainees in our field were imbued with the notion that therapy was about transformation: big, dramatic changes in the direction of... Read more
Who's Steering the Boat?
Navigating Therapy with Today's ClientsToday’s clients are shifting out of their customary position of mannerly deference and asserting far more specifically what they want—and don’t... Read more
Keeping Couples Therapy Upbeat
How to Bring a Positive Spirit Into the Consulting RoomKeeping the difficult work of couples therapy positive and upbeat might be easier, and more effective, than you think. Read more
The Silver Lining in Failure
Not Every Teachable Moment Has to Be a Successful OneThe problem with a failure is that one doesn't really understand why one failed. If one did, it wouldn't have been a failure. But I'm not giving up on my... Read more
Learning to Look at Anxiety in a New Way
The Two Truths About the Nature of Anxiety DisordersAnxiety disorders are a means of keeping the external world at bay. Anxiety keeps new ideas and information out of a person's awareness. It saves overloaded... Read more
Doing Vulnerability
The Art of Helping Men Open UpHelping emotionally closed-off men embrace vulnerability without getting lost in shame requires not only empathy but good timing. Read more
VIDEO: Richard Schwartz on Being a Compassionate Witness to Yourself
How Internal Family Systems Gives Traumatized Clients Their Power BackAccording to Richard Schwartz, the originator of Internal Family Systems therapy, the natural state of the mind is to be subdivided into parts, which carry the... Read more
After an Affair, How Much Should Be Shared?
How to Have an Honest Discussion Without Accusations and DefensivenessInfidelity expert Shirley Glass discusses how much disclosure is needed for a couple to heal after an affair. Read more
VIDEO: Ken Hardy on Getting Through to Inner City Youth
Helping Traumatized Kids Discover Their Inner ResourcesIn its coverage of race-related discord, the media has fixed on lurid images of violence and destruction without providing much context for understanding the... Read more
Playing with Anxiety
Helping Young Children Face Scary SituationsHow to use the therapeutic play zone to help young children face difficult situations. Read more
Is All Fair in Love and Sex?
How Couples Can Embrace their Sexual DifferencesEven if we believe that tender intimacy is the gold standard of erotic communication, can’t attachment be expressed in other ways? Read more
VIDEO: Frank Anderson on Bridging the Chasm between Psychotherapy and Psychiatry
How to Discuss Meds with Your ClientsPsychotherapists are usually on the front lines of mental health treatment, trained to spot and assess everything from changes in mood to unusual physical... Read more
VIDEO: Susan Johnson on the Link Between Sex and Safety
How a "Secure Base" Promotes Sexual ExplorationWhat does it take to restore physical intimacy to a failing relationship? In this video clip, Susan Johnson, the originator of Emotionally Focused Couples... Read more
Psychotherapy of the Heart
Seeing the Therapy Relationship as "Soul to Soul" Rather Than Role to RoleIn this selection from her 2017 Psychotherapy Networker Symposium Keynote address, Joan Borysenko, a pioneer in the integrated healthcare movement, emphasized... Read more
VIDEO: Julie Gottman on Making Couples' Life Dreams Come True
The Importance of Creating "Shared Meaning"According to renowned couples therapist Julie Gottman, one of the main predictors of a romantic relationship's success or failure is how well partners can... Read more
When Helping Doesn't Help
Why Some Clients May Not Want to ChangeRather than just commiserating with clients’ misery, most therapists want to engage in more active forms of helping. So we try to persuade clients... Read more
Adjusting the Unconscious
Making Quick Work of Lasting ChangeSome claim that much of psychotherapy is a pseudoscience, promising far more than it can deliver, with lengthy, expensive interventions for the common problems... Read more
Feeling Anxious?
A Longtime Researcher Weighs InHow can you keep on top of the proliferation of anxiety treatments today? Read more
The 6 Most-Read Networker Articles of 2016
A Look Back at the Year's Popular Reads, Chosen by YouThe most popular stories of 2016 as chosen by the readers of Psychotherapy Networker magazine. Read more
VIDEO: Julie Gottman on Why There's a Right Way for Couples to Argue
Breaking Down the Four Points of the "Conflict Blueprint"Are you working with partners who can't seem to escape cycles of criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling? According to renowned couples therapist... Read more
Apologizing Under Fire
How to Handle Big-Time CriticismIt’s difficult enough to offer an apology when we see the need for it and believe it’s the right thing to do. It’s far more difficult when we’re... Read more
When the Rules Change
Learning to Learn from Your ChildrenThere’s a crucial point in the parenting life cycle that’s not often discussed in the literature. Read more
VIDEO: Diane Poole Heller on the Hidden Capabilities of Trauma Survivors
Watch as a Traumatized Client Taps Into a Wellspring of Healing in an Actual SessionThink all traumatized clients are shut-down and energy-sapped? Think again. In this clip from her Networker Symposium Keynote, "Creating a Corrective Emotional... Read more
VIDEO: Susan Johnson on the Power of Emotion
The Secret Ingredient in Good TherapyEmotion is the most important motivating force bringing clients to our offices in the first place. Nevertheless, therapists are often strangely queasy in the... Read more
Transcending Trauma
Learning How to Guide Devastated Clients Toward GrowthIn the early days of the trauma field, clients were seen as one-dimensional bundles of dysfunction and pain, who needed to relive their trauma before progress... Read more
Hiding in Plain Sight
Clients' Symptoms Offer Clues to Their StrengthsAs therapists, we’re taught to be master detectives who methodically investigate our clients’ symptoms in search of a “culprit”—the source of their... Read more
It used to be an axiom for clinicians that therapeutic conversation and politics don’t mix. But in this high-stakes presidential election, some therapists... Read more
Teaching Couples to Tap
How to Use Acupoints to Overcome Blocks to IntimacyCould eliminating blocks in couples therapy be as simple as learning where to tap? Read more