Depathologizing the Borderline Client
Learning to Manage Our FearsInevitably, given their history of trauma, many borderline clients will trigger their therapists from time to time. But forgoing the urge to blame these... Read more
Is Now Really Better?
Lessons from Traditional SocietiesJared Diamond’s new book explores the many lessons modern cultures can draw from the wisdom of small-scale, preindustrial societies. Read more
Breaking The Spell
7 Questions to Ask When Therapy is StuckWhen therapy goes wrong, it’s typically because we’ve entered our clients’ trance, joining them in their myopic misery. Once there, our job is to break... Read more
Women Who Cheat
Understanding the Message of the AffairFar from being evidence of marital bankruptcy, a woman’s affair can be a way of expressing a desire for a different self and an opportunity to breathe life... Read more
From the Editor: May/June 2013
When the Tough Get TherapyThere are some clients who yell at us, manipulate us, go broodingly silent on us, have uncontrollable emotional breakdowns in session, disappear for weeks at a... Read more
On With The Show
Celebrating the Craft at SymposiumThis year, 3,000 practitioners came to our annual Symposium to explore the fundamental question: are we any closer to unraveling the mysteries of psychotherapy... Read more
Peer Supervision Groups that Work
Three Steps That Make a DifferencePeer consultation groups offer all kinds of rich possibilities for learning and collegial support---as long as you set them up properly. Read more
When Therapy Is Going Nowhere
Escaping the “Groundhog Day” CycleWhy do we get stuck in “Groundhog Day therapy,” where we spin our wheels from session to session? Before lurching on to alternative treatment strategies... Read more
Testing the Bond
What's family without shared identity?In an encyclopedic new book, Andrew Solomon explores how parents and children forge emotional bonds with one another in the presence of sometimes vast inborn... Read more
After the Anger
Learning to Love an Imperfect ParentA man entering his sixties discovers some peculiar markers that signal a retreat from old oppositional habits. Read more
Psychotherapy’s Mark Twain
For Frank Pittman, Self-Seriousness Was the One Unpardonable SinNetworker movie critic and contributor Frank Pittman delighted in pointing out the follies, foibles, and excesses of the therapy world, especially anything he... Read more
Finding the Hero Within
Exploring the Link Between Trauma and OppressionKenneth Hardy believes that the experience of trauma is too often unacknowledged by therapists struggling to help troubled minority youth. Read more
Sex, Lies, and the Long Road Back
Recovering from an Extramarital AffairHealing from an extramarital affair is rarely a simple process, especially when embarrassing sexual secrets and incompatibilities are exposed. Read more
The Many Faces Of Wisdom
Perspectives on Therapy’s QuestionsExcerpts from a series of interviews with some of the wisest souls in the field of psychology and psychotherapy on essential questions clinicians struggle with... Read more
Editor's Note: March/April 2013
What’s Wisdom Worth?The pioneers in our field—Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung, Virginia Satir, Fritz Perls, Salvador Minuchin, and others—all recognized that they were providing... Read more
Mentalization
Something New or Just Old Wine in New Bottles?Is “mentalization” a breakthrough in our understanding of the mind, or just a rehash of old ideas? Read more
Wisdom In Psychotherapy
Can We Afford It?It wasn’t their research results or bestselling books that set apart Freud, Rogers, Minuchin, and Satir. They seemed to have a sense of what really mattered... Read more
Suffering and the Quest for Wisdom
A Dark PassageThere’s something about healing from the deep emotional suffering that feels like death and rebirth—not the quick kind that some claim to receive in... Read more
Cultivating Your Creativity Can Make You More Effective
Creativity expert, Michael Gelb, on 4 simple practices that can help you become a better therapistActively cultivating creative power can be a revelation. It changes your brain, your outlook, your perception, and your problem-solving ability. Read more
VIDEO: Our Bottom Line Responsibility as Therapists
Rick Hanson on Working with the Brain for Lasting ChangePeople seek us out because they want change. Some want to be less anxious or less depressed, some want to be better able to control themselves in... Read more
Taming The Wild Things
Helping Anxious Kids and Their ParentsIn this age of helicopter parents and protective child professionals, we can often recreate a potent anxiety- reinforcing system around children that not only... Read more
Treating the Dissociative Child
The Road Back from the Ultimate Loss of SelfFew cases offer as eerie a therapeutic challenge as a suddenly noncommunicative child, lost in a dissociative shutdown. Read more
Driven Crazy
TBI is Claiming the Hearts and Minds of Too Many VetsWith the U.S. Army suicide rate at an all-time high, there’s a greater need than ever to understand the struggles of soldiers returning from war zones and... Read more
Sympathy For The Devil
Mendota, a Youth-Treatment of Last ResortThe word psychopath distinguishes hard-bitten predators. Research shows a treatment center—run by shrinks, not wardens—has reduced new violent offenses by... Read more