First Person

Creative personal essays on life and family
Article March 7, 2014

Reading the Lake

After 30 Years, a Sanctuary is Threatened

Our heads may tell us that we need to embrace inevitable changes as we grow older, but our hearts often tell a different story. Read more

Article January 8, 2014

Louder than Words

The Unspoken Code of Fathers and Sons

A Bruce Springsteen song helps crack the unspoken code of father–son communication. Read more

Article November 5, 2013

Permission to Sleep

Accepting a Long Road to Love

A woman discovers that giving someone permission to sleep can be a deep expression of love. Read more

Article September 5, 2013

More More Time

Discovering the Endless Present

A new retiree discovers the elusive secret of the endless present. Read more

Article July 1, 2013

What the Cactus Knew

The Reward of Not Getting What You Want

A much-anticipated vacation demonstrates the rewards of not getting what you want. Read more

Article May 1, 2013

Desperate Love

A Father Faces an Impossible Choice

With his son’s freedom hanging in the balance, a father must decide whether to give the gift of forgiveness one more time. Read more

Article March 14, 2013

After the Anger

Learning to Love an Imperfect Parent

A man entering his sixties discovers some peculiar markers that signal a retreat from old oppositional habits. Read more

Article January 1, 2013

Dilemmas of the “Haveitall” Mom

A Young Mother Struggles with a New Identity

A young woman confronts the myths and dilemmas of motherhood. Read more

Article November 1, 2012

Nothing Like Willy Loman?

A Classic Play Still Casts a Haunting Spell

More than 60 years after its Broadway debut, a classic play continues to cast a haunting spell. Read more

Article September 1, 2012

Isle of Dreams

Searching for a lost self in the Ould Sod

Sometimes the places we long to visit speak to needs that go much deeper than our appetite for exotic sights. Read more

Article July 1, 2012

The Art of Hanging-In There

A Hospice Social Worker’s Take on Inside Curveballs

When something is coming at you that may cause pain or self-doubt, it’s natural to want to duck. Read more

Article July 1, 2012

Mozart Redux

Not All Families are Related by Blood

Not all families are related by blood. Read more

Article May 1, 2012

"Tweenitis"

Mastering the art of ‘gruntology’

The father of an 11-year-old struggles to master the language of gruntology. Read more

Article March 1, 2012

Recovering Together

An Ailing Mother Comes to the Aid of Her Son

An ailing mother and son help each other find their way back to health. Read more

Article January 1, 2012

The Sadness Ghost

A 6-year-old discovers the power of his imagination

It’s not necessarily that sadness must always be avoided, but maybe we need to find a way to give it its place. Read more

Article November 1, 2011

The Fundamental Things

The times and tides of 33 years of marriage

The times and tides of 33 years of marriage Read more

Article September 1, 2011

The White Tuxedo

Saturday Night Fever Comes to the Bar Mitzvah

Saturday Night Fever comes to the bar mitzvah. Read more

Article June 1, 2011

The Stories We Live

In therapy—as in Fiction—There’s Always Possibility

Both doing psychotherapy and the writing of fiction are about stories. The essence of the art of both pursuits is the openness to the possibility that, no... Read more

Article June 1, 2011

In every love relationship, there are words that best remain unspoken. Read more

Article May 1, 2011

Opening The Path

From What Is to What Can Be

Down for the count, a therapist again discovers that even the most hopeless sessions can have a positive outcome if you stay with the process. Read more

Article May 1, 2011

Lost, and Found

Rediscovering a Subterranean Kingdom of Memories

Reconnecting with old memories in a father's special place. Read more

Article March 1, 2011

You've Got Mail!

A Cyber Relationship Sparks New Discovery

A cyber relationship revives a marriage in the doldrums. Read more

Article January 1, 2011

Editor's Note: January/February 2011

Eating To Live, Not Living To Eat

The old maxim "You should eat to live, not live to eat" may sound wise, but it's based on a profound misreading of the fundamental facts of human biology. Read more

Article January 1, 2011

Coming Full Circle

Learning to Choose Where You Look

Understanding your place in the great circle of life is often a matter of where you choose to look. Read more

Article November 1, 2010

Listening to Your Heart

Sometimes Life's Greatest Gifts are Disguised as Disappointments
Elizabeth Flynn Campbell

A mother deals with the news that her child will have a lifelong impairment. Read more

Article July 1, 2010

Seeking the Silence

Wilderness Solitude Opens New Doorways into the Self

At an age when many are sticking even closer to their couches and remote controls, a restless soul decides to seize his last chance to explore the wilderness... Read more

Article June 30, 2010

Hoop Dreams

On the Mean Streets of Dallas, Therapy’s a Whole New Ball Game

A private practice therapist recalls his college days as a basketball player in a way he never dreamed of. Read more

Article May 1, 2010

Going, Going, Gone

A young boy finds his Charon for the final journey
Anna Belle Kaufman

An ill child finds his place among a group of other boys in aging men's bodies. Read more

Article March 1, 2010

Tough Love

They Don't Make Fathers Like They Used To
Steven Friedman

Fond memories of an old-fashioned father who believed in practicing tough love with his fists. Read more

Article January 1, 2010

Swept Away

Discovering the world of the senses

A young woman discovers the world of the senses. Read more

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