Contributed by Wendy Behary
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Disarming the Narcissist in Couples Therapy
Is successful couples therapy even possible when one of the partners won’t admit their flaws or reflect on how their behavior impacts the other person?
In this can’t miss session, best-selling author, therapist and narcissist expert, Wendy Behary guides you through the techniques you can use to disarm these clients in couples work and give their partners the tools they need to set limits and draw the line on unacceptable behavior.
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Schema Therapy: Proven Techniques to Treat Your Most Challenging and Resistant Clients
Anxiety
Chronic Depression
Eating Disorders
BPD
Substance Abuse
Narcissism
Schema therapy is an innovative, integrated therapeutic approach, originally developed (by Dr. Jeffrey Young) as an expansion of traditional cognitive-behavioral treatments. The schema therapy approach draws from cognitive-behavioral therapy, attachment theory, psychodynamic concepts, and emotion-focused therapies. In comparison to cognitive-behavioral therapy, schema therapy emphasizes lifelong patterns, affective change techniques, and the therapy relationship, with special emphasis on limited and adaptive re-parenting.
Schema therapy is particularly well suited for difficult, resistant clients with entrenched, chronic psychological challenges, including personality disorders (such as BPD and Narcissism), eating disorders, intractable relationship problems, and criminal offenders. It is also effective for relapse prevention in depression, anxiety, and substance abuse.
The results of a major comparative outcome study have shown schema therapy to be highly effective with a large percentage of outpatients with Borderline Personality Disorder, with a low dropout rate. Clients who have spent years gaining valuable insight with psychodynamic treatments, but who are frustrated by their lack of progress, often respond well to the active, systematic, flexible, and depth-oriented schema approach.
This workshop will include a combination of teaching methods, including lectures, handouts, videotapes of master schema therapists, live demonstrations, question-and-answer periods, group discussion, assessment and change strategies practice exercises, discussion of obstacles in treatment including therapist’s own schemas, and small group exercises.
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Confronting the Narcissistic Client
Narcissists are notoriously difficult to work with. They can be arrogant, condescending, lacking in empathy, and so self-absorbed they seem incapable of forming genuine relationships with anyone, including their therapist. Since being nice is usually ineffective with such clients, in order to get through to them, you’ll need to use a different method—empathic confrontation.
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Confronting the Narcissistic Client
Narcissists are notoriously difficult to work with. They can be arrogant, condescending, lacking in empathy, and so self-absorbed they seem incapable of forming genuine relationships with anyone, including their therapist. Since being nice is usually ineffective with such clients, in order to get through to them, you’ll need to use a different method—empathic confrontation.
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Schema Therapy: Proven Techniques to Treat Your Most Challenging and Resistant Clients
Anxiety
Chronic Depression
Eating Disorders
BPD
Substance Abuse
Narcissism
Schema therapy is an innovative, integrated therapeutic approach, originally developed (by Dr. Jeffrey Young) as an expansion of traditional cognitive-behavioral treatments. The schema therapy approach draws from cognitive-behavioral therapy, attachment theory, psychodynamic concepts, and emotion-focused therapies. In comparison to cognitive-behavioral therapy, schema therapy emphasizes lifelong patterns, affective change techniques, and the therapy relationship, with special emphasis on limited and adaptive re-parenting.
Schema therapy is particularly well suited for difficult, resistant clients with entrenched, chronic psychological challenges, including personality disorders (such as BPD and Narcissism), eating disorders, intractable relationship problems, and criminal offenders. It is also effective for relapse prevention in depression, anxiety, and substance abuse.
The results of a major comparative outcome study have shown schema therapy to be highly effective with a large percentage of outpatients with Borderline Personality Disorder, with a low dropout rate. Clients who have spent years gaining valuable insight with psychodynamic treatments, but who are frustrated by their lack of progress, often respond well to the active, systematic, flexible, and depth-oriented schema approach.
This workshop will include a combination of teaching methods, including lectures, handouts, videotapes of master schema therapists, live demonstrations, question-and-answer periods, group discussion, assessment and change strategies practice exercises, discussion of obstacles in treatment including therapist’s own schemas, and small group exercises.
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Schema Therapy Strategies: Treat Hypersexual Narcissism, Trauma, Gaslighting, Shame & Attachment Wounds
It can be uncomfortable for you… but it’s essential for therapy…
When working your narcissistic clients you likely encounter shame, maladaptive coping patterns, gaslighting, hypersexual tendencies & more.
You need to get the skills to apply strategic, targeted techniques to decrease defensives, change underlying themes & challenge problematic personality traits.
Learn the skills to compassionately confront your narcissistic clients. Watch Wendy Behary, MSW, LCSW, and get strategies from Schema Therapy to help your narcissistic clients meet early unmet needs. Get techniques to work with:
Early maladaptive schemas by applying emotion-focused techniques
Clients’ self-demands for extraordinary performance, special entitlements, overindulgence & more
Sexual preoccupations – pornography, cyber relationships, affairs, sadomasochism & other eroticism
YOU can improve your clients’ relationships, treat shame & heal early traumatic attachment wounds to change their lives.
Purchase now and make your toughest cases easier!
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Schema Therapy: Basic & Beyond for Clinical Challenges
Schema Therapy is an innovative approach that emphasizes lifelong patterns, affective change techniques, and an emphasis on re-parenting in the therapeutic relationship.
An extension of cognitive-behavioral therapy Schema Therapy draws from attachment theory, psychodynamics, emotion-focused strategies to treat narcissism, borderline, eating disorders, relationship problems, criminal offenses & more.
This 8-Module self-study digital seminar will include a combination of teaching methods, including lecture, handouts, videos of master schema therapists, demonstrations of applied assessment and change strategies, discussion of common treatment obstacles.
Schema therapy will help you help your clients to:
Keep clients engaged & lower drop-out rates
Gain insight into themselves AND change
Apply systemic, flexible & emotion-focused techniques
Manage symptoms related to depression, anxiety, substance use, personality disorders & more clinical challenges
Register now!
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Voices of Reason
Empowering clients to alter their internal experiences
Letting Go of Hate
How to help clients change unconscious responses
VIDEO: How to Engage a Narcissist in Therapy
Wendy Behary On The Keys To Successfully Treating Narcissists
Wendy Behary
Wendy T. Behary, MSW, LCSW, with over 25 years of professional experience and advanced level certifications, is the founder and director of The Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and The Schema Therapy Institutes of NJ-NYC-DC. She has been treating narcissist clients, partners/people dealing with them, and couples experiencing relationship problems; training professionals; and supervising psychotherapists for more than 20 years. Wendy was on the faculty of the Cognitive Therapy Center and Schema Therapy Institute of New York (until the Institutes merged in 2012), where she trained and worked with Dr. Jeffrey Young since 1989. Wendy is a founding fellow and consulting supervisor for The Academy of Cognitive Therapy (Aaron T. Beck’s Institute). She served as the President of the Executive Board of the International Society of Schema Therapy (ISST) from 2010-2014 and is currently the chair of the Schema Therapy Development Programs Sub-Committee for the ISST; and also served as the Training and Certification Coordinator for the ISST Executive Board from 2008-2010. Wendy Behary has co-authored several chapters and articles on Schema Therapy and Cognitive Therapy. She is the author of an international bestselling book, "Disarming the Narcissist...” (New Harbinger, 2nd edition) translated in 12 languages. Wendy has a specialty in treating narcissists and the people who live with and deal with them. As an author and an expert on the subject of narcissism, she is a contributing chapter author of several chapters on schema therapy for narcissism for professional readers. She lectures both nationally and internationally to professional and general audiences on schema therapy, narcissism, interpersonal relationships, anger, and dealing with difficult people. She receives consistent high praise for her clear and articulate teaching style and her ability to bring the therapy to life through dramatic demonstrations of client interactions in the treatment room.