Often we hear things from clients like “My relationship ending was so traumatic for me,” or “When my uncle passed away, I was totally traumatized.” With the word trauma being used so loosely and for such a wide range of problems, how do we know what it actually means anymore?
According to trauma expert Bessel van der Kolk, author of The Body Keeps the Score, understanding how trauma affects the body can help us distinguish between true trauma, and incidents that, while distressing, aren't really traumatic after all. In this video clip with Networker editor Rich Simon, van der Kolk explains.
Bessel van der Kolk, MD, is the medical director of The Trauma Center in Boston, professor of psychiatry at Boston University Medical School, and codirector of the National Center for Child Traumatic Stress Complex Trauma Network.
As van der Kolk notes, trauma is specifically an event that overwhelms the central nervous system, altering the way we process and recall memories. “Trauma is not the story of something that happened back then," he adds. "It’s the current imprint of that pain, horror, and fear living inside people.”
The bottom line, van der Kolk says, is talk therapy alone often isn't enough to treat trauma. Follow the links below to read more about his recommendations for trauma treatment, as well as other mind/body strategies for helping trauma survivors recover.
Check out van der Kolk's "Trauma: Retreats and Advances" in our magazine issue, The Connected Self, where he describes the evolution of trauma treatment as well as up-and-coming interventions, or "Outside the Box," by Mary Jo Barrett, where she explains the importance of including families in trauma treatment. You might also enjoy this clip from Peter Levine, in which he shares a personal story about working through trauma.