Getting Past You and Me
Cultivating the “Us” in Intimate RelationshipTerry Real is on a mission: leading couples into increased intimacy by moving them beyond a culture of individualism. Read more
“Be Yourself—But Don’t”
Mixed Messages from a Mother to Her Gay SonWhat happens when loving mothers of gay sons unknowingly send them mixed messages about being themselves? Read more
Unshed Tears
Helping Kids Work through Unresolved GriefMany of the ways that children grieve differently from adults can go unrecognized and unprocessed. Read more
Agitated Kids, Dangerous Punishment
Rethinking the Policy of Seclusion and RestraintSeclusion and restraint is a rare but extreme response to students deemed unruly. One parent, backed by some clinical allies, is drawing attention to its... Read more
The Happiness Workbook for Kids
Happiness is a result of our own thoughts and actions. But how do we teach that to children. The Happiness Workbook for Kids is the key. In this insightful... Read more
When Someone Dies
Navigating the grief and bereavement process can be a challenging and unpredictable experience, especially for children. Whether it’s the loss of a... Read more
Do I Have to Forgive You?
Loosening the Grip of Obsessive Anger and PainThe hardest part of letting go of anger can be accepting that the offending party is never going to apologize, never going to see themselves objectively, and... Read more
Healing in the Outback
An Outdoor Therapist Reconceives His RolePsychotherapy needs alternatives to the century-old approach of sit and talk. When you’re open to the spirit of adventure, you never feel stuck. Read more
Relational EMDR Therapy
Showing Up for Our ClientsBeing an expert in your method is only part of the work. Sometimes our clients need us to go beyond administering a protocol. Read more
Crossing the Urban-Rural Divide
Time to Address Unchallenged PrejudicesIn Hammerfest, Norway, known as the northernmost town in the world, a therapist is challenging geographical narcissism. Read more
Cognitive Processing Therapy in Action
Treating Trauma From the Top DownWhen it comes to designating best practices for treating trauma, where does the research stand? And where is the field going? Read more
Humility First
Avoiding Transcultural OverreachThere’s no recipe book when it comes to working with another culture. Read more
Couples Therapy Around the World
Putting EFT to Work in Two CulturesWith its Western focus on secure emotional bonds and demonstrative, healthy attachment in couples, how does Emotionally Focused Therapy fit into ancient and... Read more
Editor's Note - March/April 2022
Reimagining PsychotherapyA readiness to revise and reimagine is central to a therapists’ work. Read more
Getting at the Heart of Affairs
How to Help Clients Examine Ethical DilemmasA seasoned therapist discusses the ethics around consulting with couples impacted by infidelity. Read more
2-Day Certification Training: Treating Anxiety Disorders in Children & Adolescents
Divorce, family breakdown, violence in society and the media, has produced a “shell shocked” generation of kids suffering from anxiety! Watch... Read more
2-Day Certification Training: Treating Anxiety Disorders in Children & Adolescents
Divorce, family breakdown, violence in society and the media, has produced a “shell shocked” generation of kids suffering from anxiety! Watch... Read more
Rethinking Borderline Personality Disorder: A Traumatic Attachment Disorder
Regardless of how it might seem, clients aren’t really at war with their therapists; they’re caught up in a trauma-related internal battle, asking... Read more
Treating Suicide Risk with Competence and Confidence: How to Move Beyond Our Fears
The thought of a client dying by suicide can keep even experienced therapists up at night. Moreover, fear of malpractice liability often leads them to practice... Read more
The Ethical Lives of Clients: What Therapists Can Offer
Clients regularly seek our input on a wide range of ethical dilemmas. Should they divorce? Cut off a difficult family member? Keep or reveal a family secret... Read more
NeuroMeditation for Mental Health: Strategies for ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, and PTSD
Meditation is not a one-size-fits-all process. Some styles of meditation activate the brain, while others quiet it down. Some styles are better for managing... Read more
Making Mindfulness Stick with Children and Teens: A Practical Approach
As we emerge into a new normal of the pandemic, so many children and teens are looking for more skills to self-regulate challenging emotions. When we can... Read more
Liberating Ourselves from Suffering: Justice, Spirituality & Belonging in Your Clinical Practice
In the last few years, most clinicians have felt a shift not only in the larger culture but the therapy room as well. With so much suffering and isolation... Read more
The Dance with Boundaries: Understanding the Top Ethical Challenges in Clinical Practice
Navigating boundaries is one of the biggest and most common challenges you’ll face as a clinician. Since every client is different, communicating and... Read more
The Point of Belonging: How We Return to and Reclaim Self
Called "the most intriguing African American Buddhist," Rev. angel Kyodo williams is an author, activist, master trainer, and founder of The Center... Read more
From Dysfunction to Erotic Discovery: Transforming the Sexual Narrative
When couples come to therapy with problems involving desire, arousal, and orgasm, therapists often fall into the trap of thinking of them as somehow broken and... Read more
Addressing Grief in 2022: Rethinking Macro and Micro Grief
As clients continue to struggle with pandemic-related concerns, therapists are helping them address an accumulation of grief. People are grieving the loss of... Read more
Thriving in the Aftermath of Trauma: Restoring the Self Through Balance, Rhythm, and Regulation
Traumatized people often feel alienated from their bodily experience and suffer from profound symptoms of emotional numbness to both positive and negative... Read more
Hypnosis for Trauma and Chronic Pain: Protocols for Relieving Pain in Trauma Survivors
Trauma doesn’t just leave behind emotional pain — it can also manifest in physical pain that drives addictions, stalls progress in therapy, and... Read more