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Life Without Father

A Son Looks for Answers from a Stoic Parent Back from War

Frank Pittman • 2/7/2019

By Frank Pittman - Even though I knew I wanted to be a father when I grew up, I didn’t know exactly what skills were required. We of the ’40s and ’50s grew up with fathers who were off at war or at work, and who weren’t part of the family even when they were at home. We were essentially fatherless.

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Six Ways to Find Comedy in Even the Darkest Moments

Shaking Your Clients Loose from Their Tragic Stances

Frank Pittman • 4/4/2018

By Frank Pittman - Therapy, in order to shake people loose from their tragic stances and bounce them into the human comedy, is at its best when it is funny, when the tragic family story being acted out is rewritten to provide a happy ending. I urge therapists to keep these simple guidelines in mind as they go through their day.

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The Liberating Power of Honesty

What People Don't Know Can Hurt Them. What They Don't Reveal Can Hurt Even More

Frank Pittman • 11/23/2017

By Frank Pittman - When we therapists believe a secret's revelations would be dangerous, the client receives a frightening message about him- or herself and about the world. We may accept our patients and make psychodynamic, systemic or sociological excuses for them, while still conveying that their secret is unacceptable. Thus, while explicitly "supporting" them, we implicitly undermine their sense that they are fundamentally decent, acceptable people.

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Coping and Learning After a Client's Suicide

A Therapist Reflects on What He Might Have Done Differently

Frank Pittman • 9/7/2017

By Frank Pittman - I've been in full-time private practice for almost 30 years. In that time, three patients in my practice killed themselves. Each suicide has left me shell-shocked and questioning my therapeutic attitudes and methods. I did not expect Adam to be one of my casualties.

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Turns in the Road

Highlights from the Networker Journey

Mary Sykes Wylie, Dusty Miller, Esther Perel, Frank Pittman, Fred Wistow, Gary Greenberg, Katy Butler, Laura Markowitz, Molly Layton, Rich Simon, Ron Taffel • 1/1/2017

Out of all the hundreds and hundreds of articles that have appeared in the Networker over the past four decades, we’ve chosen a small sampling that captures the magazine’s most journalistic side, conveying not so much the eternal verities of our profession, but the sense of reading a first draft of the field’s history. Among other things, you’ll find therapeutic methods that, as exciting as they seemed at the moment, didn’t stand the test of time as well as initial forays into discussing complex issues we’re still struggling with today. We’ve also added in a few examples of writing so immediate and compelling that they have an air of timelessness. Prepare yourself for an interesting journey.

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Copyright:
3/18/2013
Authors:
WILLIAM DOHERTY, PH.D.
 
RON TAFFEL, PH.D.
 
KENNETH V. HARDY, PH.D.
 
BETTY CARTER, MSW
 
FRANK PITTMAN, MD
 
MARY SYKES WYLIE, PHD
 
MOLLY LAYTON, PHD
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Copyright:
3/15/2013
Authors:
MARTHA STRAUS, PH.D.
 
CLOE MADANES, HDL, LIC
 
DAVID TREADWAY, PH.D.
 
FRANK PITTMAN, MD
 
LASCELLES BLACK, MSW, LMFT
 
MARY PIPHER, PH.D.
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2/4/2013
Authors:
DON-DAVID LUSTERMAN, PHD
 
EMILY BROWN, LCSW
 
FRANK PITTMAN, MD
 
LEO FAY, PHD
 
SHIRLEY GLASS, PHD
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Voices of Truth

Frank Pittman • 9/24/2009

By Frank Pittman - When TV finally came, in the early '50s, the world it brought into our living rooms was black and white, and dumbed way down. Newsmen now had faces, and, as eyewitnesses, we could now determine who had an honest face and who didn't. The most honest of the talking heads seemed to be the revered war correspondent Edward R. Murrow. Now the actor George Clooney has put together a reenactment of the public clash between Murrow and the rabid senator Joe McCarthy. It's called Good Night and Good Luck.

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Screening Room

Move Over, Meryl: Kate Winslet Ascends to Center Stage

Frank Pittman • 5/5/2009

What separates screen actors who remain enshrined in our memory from those who just momentarily catch our eye?

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Copyright:
3/18/2013
Authors:
WILLIAM DOHERTY, PH.D.
 
RON TAFFEL, PH.D.
 
KENNETH V. HARDY, PH.D.
 
BETTY CARTER, MSW
 
FRANK PITTMAN, MD
 
MARY SYKES WYLIE, PHD
 
MOLLY LAYTON, PHD
Product:
NRC095560
Copyright:
3/15/2013
Authors:
MARTHA STRAUS, PH.D.
 
CLOE MADANES, HDL, LIC
 
DAVID TREADWAY, PH.D.
 
FRANK PITTMAN, MD
 
LASCELLES BLACK, MSW, LMFT
 
MARY PIPHER, PH.D.
Product:
NRC095559
Copyright:
2/4/2013
Authors:
DON-DAVID LUSTERMAN, PHD
 
EMILY BROWN, LCSW
 
FRANK PITTMAN, MD
 
LEO FAY, PHD
 
SHIRLEY GLASS, PHD
Product:
NRC095551
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Life Without Father

A Son Looks for Answers from a Stoic Parent Back from War

Frank Pittman • 2/7/2019

By Frank Pittman - Even though I knew I wanted to be a father when I grew up, I didn’t know exactly what skills were required. We of the ’40s and ’50s grew up with fathers who were off at war or at work, and who weren’t part of the family even when they were at home. We were essentially fatherless.

Daily Blog

Six Ways to Find Comedy in Even the Darkest Moments

Shaking Your Clients Loose from Their Tragic Stances

Frank Pittman • 4/4/2018

By Frank Pittman - Therapy, in order to shake people loose from their tragic stances and bounce them into the human comedy, is at its best when it is funny, when the tragic family story being acted out is rewritten to provide a happy ending. I urge therapists to keep these simple guidelines in mind as they go through their day.

Daily Blog

The Liberating Power of Honesty

What People Don't Know Can Hurt Them. What They Don't Reveal Can Hurt Even More

Frank Pittman • 11/23/2017

By Frank Pittman - When we therapists believe a secret's revelations would be dangerous, the client receives a frightening message about him- or herself and about the world. We may accept our patients and make psychodynamic, systemic or sociological excuses for them, while still conveying that their secret is unacceptable. Thus, while explicitly "supporting" them, we implicitly undermine their sense that they are fundamentally decent, acceptable people.

Daily Blog

Coping and Learning After a Client's Suicide

A Therapist Reflects on What He Might Have Done Differently

Frank Pittman • 9/7/2017

By Frank Pittman - I've been in full-time private practice for almost 30 years. In that time, three patients in my practice killed themselves. Each suicide has left me shell-shocked and questioning my therapeutic attitudes and methods. I did not expect Adam to be one of my casualties.

Daily Blog
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It's Not My Fault!

Political Correctness v Therapeutic Correctness

Frank Pittman • 1/16/1992

When Networker film critic and in-house provocateur Frank Pittman wrote this piece 25 years ago, the concept of “political correctness” was just beginning to seep into our national consciousness. With an iconoclast’s passion and a dash of dry wit, he cataloged the hazards of PC thinking for the field of psychotherapy—and for the souls of therapists themselves.

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What Price Camelot?

Modern Day Myths of Infidelity

Frank Pittman • 5/1/1989

What is infidelity? This question of just what is an infidelity, and what isn't, is a surprisingly touchy one, as I discover each time I talk to either professional or nonprofessional audiences. I try to define infidelity, and describe it as best I can, and somebody will invariably come up to me anxiously and sheepishly and tell me about some experience, and ask for reassurance that this act was not an infidelity.

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Bringing Up Father

How My Children Taught Me the Secret of Fatherhood

Frank Pittman • 5/16/1988

When author Frank Pittman became a father, he discovered that the childhood absence of his own father left him with no idea how to relate to his kids. This piece plumbs many men’s difficulties in connecting with their kids, and suggests how therapists can best help “amateur dads” learn the vital lessons for raising their children.

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Frank Pittman, M.D., is a contributing editor to The Family Therapy Networker and is in private practice.