The Therapy Beat
Not surprisingly, almost nothing makes children, including adolescents, feel as insecure and adrift as parents who also feel insecure and adrift, tossed by... Read more
We need more realistic expectations about the possibilities of human transformation Read more
Therapy on the information highway a strange fiction based on a stranger reality. Article first published in the September/October 1994 issue. TODAY, IN THE... Read more
From the September/October 1994 IN THE PHOTOGRAPH OF MY maternal grandfather, Louie, that I remember most clearly, he is around 50, his bald head and... Read more
The Bottom Line
A primer on managing managed careFrom the July/August 1994 PRIVATE PRACTITIONERS WHO WANT TO SURVIVE TODAY must know how to work smarter, and market and provide quality customer service. It is... Read more
Have a Good Day
But don't ask me to smile!From the July/August 1994 issue SHE WORE A SEMITRANSPARENT WHITE SHIRT, AND underneath I could detect her fine lace bra. When she leaned toward me to take my... Read more
From the July/August 1994 issue WHEN I WAS 15 YEARS OLD, MY FRIEND CAROL TALKED ME into going to a dance at our high school. Of course, we had... Read more
Two sisters find different ways to live with the nightmare of sexual abuse. Read more
From the July/August 1994 issue ON A SATURDAY EVENING LATE ONE MAY A FEW YEARS AGO, I stood outside a recently opened restaurant and watched as cars... Read more
From the July/August 1994 issue IN A WIDELY PUBLICIZED TRIAL last May anxiously followed by therapists around the country, a jury in Napa County... Read more
Reality Sucks
Welcome to Generation XFrom the July/August 1994 issue I HAD NEVER HEARD OF KURT COBAIN UNTIL THE OTHER day when he killed himself. Apparently, between suicide attempts, he had been... Read more
From the July/August 1994 issue THE PHRASE, “THE MELTING POT” ORIGINALLY CAME FROM THE title of a popular turn-of-the-century play that ended... Read more
Cutting through the isolation of our self-declared tribes Read more
Of course, not everyone's quarrel with PC is the same. Read more
Transformation of a Therapist
Learning to apply intervention skills to business systemsFrom the May/June 1994 issue ABOUT 10 YEARS AGO, I READ NICK CUMMINGS’S presidential address to the American Psychological Association in which he... Read more
Some African-American couples wrestle with stereotypes to the bitter end. Read more
How the world looks to a 10-year-old with a learning disability. Read more
Two squabbling ex-spouses learn to be steadfast coparents. Read more
The real diagnosis hiding behind client's failed marriages, rage, and shame isn't always easy to spot. Read more
Every day, warring and desperate husbands and wives show up in our offices agonizing over divorce. Have we been too blithe in encouraging them to go ahead, too... Read more
Some intriguing findings refute popular myths about marriage. Read more
This essay offers 38 radical life solutions on truth, work, love, politics, and spirit—all urging you to stop running and be the solution. Read more
Therapists wrestle with an uncomfortable truth: in a culture in crisis, neutrality is no longer and option. Read more
Appasionata
Fables and fairy tales and fires in our soulsTwo films, one question: what does it cost us when we're forced to bury our deepest passions? Read more