The Dance of Healthy Connection

Sue Johnson on EFT and Attachment Theory

Susan Johnson

Attachment Theory isn't just about childhood attachment. It's about the ongoing, present dynamics that unfold in front of us in therapy, says couples therapist and developer of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Sue Johnson.

Here, she explains how Attachment Theory and EFT help us zero in on the most powerful force in the therapy room, discern what Attachment Theory pioneer John Bowlby called the essence of all emotional problems, and find the common denominator in couple relationships and therapy relationships.

Susan Johnson, EdD, is the developer of Emotionally Focused Therapy. Her latest book is Attachment Theory in Practice.

Besides underscoring Attachment Theory's implication for practice, Johnson says, EFT help us understand how we interact with others and make sense of our inner lives. 

It also reinforces the importance of the therapeutic relationship as a safe space and corrective experience. In both romantic relationships and therapeutic relationships, the question the client is asking is the same: Are you there for me?

A good therapist will be there for their client, Johnson says, emotionally accessible, responsive, and engaged. "They meet the client with presence and attunement."


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Topic: Couples | Sex & Sexuality

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