Talking About the Nightmare
Sometimes, trying to stay calm under pressure sets you up for dealing with it in isolation. It feels counterintuitive to head toward vulnerability. That was my story. I was trained not to be vulnerable.
Magazine Article
Copyright:
6/22/2021
Authors:
DAVID KESSLER
DANIEL J SIEGEL, M.D.
BESSEL A VAN DER KOLK, M.D.
CLAUDIA BLACK, MSW., PHD
JOHN M. GOTTMAN, PH.D.
JULIE GOTTMAN, PH.D.
JANINA FISHER, PH.D.
LESLIE KORN, PH.D., MPH, LMHC, ACS, RPP, NTP, NCBTMB
TERRENCE REAL, LICSW
STEPHEN PORGES, PH.D.
WILLIAM DOHERTY, PH.D.
SUSAN JOHNSON, ED.D.
RICHARD C. SCHWARTZ, PHD
LINDA GRAHAM, MFT
RICHARD SEARS, PSYD, PHD, MBA, ABPP
JOE KORT, PH.D., LMSW
BRITT H RATHBONE, LCSW-C, ACSW, BCD, CGP
MARY JO BARRETT, MSW
GABOR MATÉ, MD
TAMMY NELSON, PH.D.
JONAH PAQUETTE, PSY.D.
COURTNEY ARMSTRONG, LPC, MHSP
LISA FERENTZ, LCSW-C, DAPA
FRANK ANDERSON, M.D.
KENNETH V. HARDY, PH.D.
IAN KERNER, PHD, LMFT
EDWARD HALLOWELL, MD
CATHERINE PITTMAN, PH.D., HSPP
DAFNA LENDER, LCSW
DAVID TREADWAY, PH.D.
LYNN LYONS, LICSW
SUZANNE IASENZA, PH.D.
DAVID JOBES, PH.D., ABPP
ALEXANDRA SOLOMON, PHD
MICHAEL MITHOEFER, MD
DEANY LALIOTIS, LICSW
JAMES L. FURROW, PH.D.
DEB DANA, LCSW, LICSW
GEORGE FALLER, LMFT
PETER FRAENKEL, PH.D.
HOWARD SCHUBINER, MD
SABRINA N'DIAYE, PH.D., LCSW-C
KENNETH CARTER, PHD, ABPP
MANUELA MISCHKE-REEDS, MA, LMFT
ELLIOTT CONNIE, MA, LPC
ANDREW TATARSKY PH.D.
CANDICE RICHARDSON DICKENS, LCPC-S, LCADC-S, CCTP
STEPHEN SNYDER, MD
SHADEEN FRANCIS, LMFT
DERAN YOUNG, LCSW
JADA MCCRAY, LCSW-C
NOAH GARCIA, MA, LPC-S, NCC
DR. JENNIFER SWEETON, PSY.D., M.S., M.A.
ABI BLAKESLEE, PHD, MFT, CMT, SEP
MEG JAY, PHD
JENNIFER UDLER, LCSW-C
RAMANI DURVASULA, PHD, LCP
JULIANE TAYLOR SHORE, LMFT, LPC
LAURA COPLEY, PHD, LPC
Product:
NRS001440
Copyright:
6/22/2021
Authors:
DAVID KESSLER
DANIEL J SIEGEL, M.D.
BESSEL A VAN DER KOLK, M.D.
CLAUDIA BLACK, MSW., PHD
JOHN M. GOTTMAN, PH.D.
JULIE GOTTMAN, PH.D.
JANINA FISHER, PH.D.
LESLIE KORN, PH.D., MPH, LMHC, ACS, RPP, NTP, NCBTMB
TERRENCE REAL, LICSW
STEPHEN PORGES, PH.D.
WILLIAM DOHERTY, PH.D.
SUSAN JOHNSON, ED.D.
RICHARD C. SCHWARTZ, PHD
LINDA GRAHAM, MFT
RICHARD SEARS, PSYD, PHD, MBA, ABPP
JOE KORT, PH.D., LMSW
BRITT H RATHBONE, LCSW-C, ACSW, BCD, CGP
MARY JO BARRETT, MSW
GABOR MATÉ, MD
TAMMY NELSON, PH.D.
JONAH PAQUETTE, PSY.D.
COURTNEY ARMSTRONG, LPC, MHSP
LISA FERENTZ, LCSW-C, DAPA
FRANK ANDERSON, M.D.
KENNETH V. HARDY, PH.D.
IAN KERNER, PHD, LMFT
EDWARD HALLOWELL, MD
CATHERINE PITTMAN, PH.D., HSPP
DAFNA LENDER, LCSW
DAVID TREADWAY, PH.D.
LYNN LYONS, LICSW
SUZANNE IASENZA, PH.D.
DAVID JOBES, PH.D., ABPP
ALEXANDRA SOLOMON, PHD
MICHAEL MITHOEFER, MD
DEANY LALIOTIS, LICSW
JAMES L. FURROW, PH.D.
DEB DANA, LCSW, LICSW
GEORGE FALLER, LMFT
PETER FRAENKEL, PH.D.
HOWARD SCHUBINER, MD
SABRINA N'DIAYE, PH.D., LCSW-C
KENNETH CARTER, PHD, ABPP
MANUELA MISCHKE-REEDS, MA, LMFT
ELLIOTT CONNIE, MA, LPC
ANDREW TATARSKY PH.D.
CANDICE RICHARDSON DICKENS, LCPC-S, LCADC-S, CCTP
STEPHEN SNYDER, MD
SHADEEN FRANCIS, LMFT
DERAN YOUNG, LCSW
JADA MCCRAY, LCSW-C
NOAH GARCIA, MA, LPC-S, NCC
DR. JENNIFER SWEETON, PSY.D., M.S., M.A.
ABI BLAKESLEE, PHD, MFT, CMT, SEP
MEG JAY, PHD
JENNIFER UDLER, LCSW-C
RAMANI DURVASULA, PHD, LCP
JULIANE TAYLOR SHORE, LMFT, LPC
LAURA COPLEY, PHD, LPC
Product:
NRS001440
An Introduction to EFT with Families
Copyright:
3/21/2021
Authors:
JAMES L. FURROW, PH.D.
GEORGE FALLER, LMFT
Product:
NOS096154
Copyright:
3/21/2021
Authors:
JAMES L. FURROW, PH.D.
GEORGE FALLER, LMFT
Product:
NOS096154
Case Study
The Therapist as Traffic Cop: Learning the Hard Way with a Volatile Couple
Being a good traffic cop can mean the difference between success or failure as a couples therapist.* Commentary by Peter Fraenkel
Magazine Article
Copyright:
3/22/2018
Author:
GEORGE FALLER, LMFT
Product:
NOS095907
Copyright:
3/22/2018
Author:
GEORGE FALLER, LMFT
Product:
NOS095907
When Male Partners Won't Open Up
Helping Closed-Off Men See Vulnerability as a Path to Healthier Relationships
By George Faller - Many of our clients, especially men, believe in the traditional definition of vulnerability: a state of weakness that leads to being open to attack. But vulnerability is the language of emotionally connected beings, and like a powerful magnet, pain, doubt, fear, mistrust, and other vulnerable states bring forth new opportunities for deep intimacy and transformation, especially in work with couples.
Daily Blog
Case Study
Doing Vulnerability: The Art of Helping Men Open Up
Helping emotionally closed-off men embrace vulnerability without getting lost in shame requires not only empathy but good timing.
Magazine Article
Page 1 of 1 (7 Items)
Copyright:
6/22/2021
Authors:
DAVID KESSLER
DANIEL J SIEGEL, M.D.
BESSEL A VAN DER KOLK, M.D.
CLAUDIA BLACK, MSW., PHD
JOHN M. GOTTMAN, PH.D.
JULIE GOTTMAN, PH.D.
JANINA FISHER, PH.D.
LESLIE KORN, PH.D., MPH, LMHC, ACS, RPP, NTP, NCBTMB
TERRENCE REAL, LICSW
STEPHEN PORGES, PH.D.
WILLIAM DOHERTY, PH.D.
SUSAN JOHNSON, ED.D.
RICHARD C. SCHWARTZ, PHD
LINDA GRAHAM, MFT
RICHARD SEARS, PSYD, PHD, MBA, ABPP
JOE KORT, PH.D., LMSW
BRITT H RATHBONE, LCSW-C, ACSW, BCD, CGP
MARY JO BARRETT, MSW
GABOR MATÉ, MD
TAMMY NELSON, PH.D.
JONAH PAQUETTE, PSY.D.
COURTNEY ARMSTRONG, LPC, MHSP
LISA FERENTZ, LCSW-C, DAPA
FRANK ANDERSON, M.D.
KENNETH V. HARDY, PH.D.
IAN KERNER, PHD, LMFT
EDWARD HALLOWELL, MD
CATHERINE PITTMAN, PH.D., HSPP
DAFNA LENDER, LCSW
DAVID TREADWAY, PH.D.
LYNN LYONS, LICSW
SUZANNE IASENZA, PH.D.
DAVID JOBES, PH.D., ABPP
ALEXANDRA SOLOMON, PHD
MICHAEL MITHOEFER, MD
DEANY LALIOTIS, LICSW
JAMES L. FURROW, PH.D.
DEB DANA, LCSW, LICSW
GEORGE FALLER, LMFT
PETER FRAENKEL, PH.D.
HOWARD SCHUBINER, MD
SABRINA N'DIAYE, PH.D., LCSW-C
KENNETH CARTER, PHD, ABPP
MANUELA MISCHKE-REEDS, MA, LMFT
ELLIOTT CONNIE, MA, LPC
ANDREW TATARSKY PH.D.
CANDICE RICHARDSON DICKENS, LCPC-S, LCADC-S, CCTP
STEPHEN SNYDER, MD
SHADEEN FRANCIS, LMFT
DERAN YOUNG, LCSW
JADA MCCRAY, LCSW-C
NOAH GARCIA, MA, LPC-S, NCC
DR. JENNIFER SWEETON, PSY.D., M.S., M.A.
ABI BLAKESLEE, PHD, MFT, CMT, SEP
MEG JAY, PHD
JENNIFER UDLER, LCSW-C
RAMANI DURVASULA, PHD, LCP
JULIANE TAYLOR SHORE, LMFT, LPC
LAURA COPLEY, PHD, LPC
Product:
NRS001440
Copyright:
6/22/2021
Authors:
DAVID KESSLER
DANIEL J SIEGEL, M.D.
BESSEL A VAN DER KOLK, M.D.
CLAUDIA BLACK, MSW., PHD
JOHN M. GOTTMAN, PH.D.
JULIE GOTTMAN, PH.D.
JANINA FISHER, PH.D.
LESLIE KORN, PH.D., MPH, LMHC, ACS, RPP, NTP, NCBTMB
TERRENCE REAL, LICSW
STEPHEN PORGES, PH.D.
WILLIAM DOHERTY, PH.D.
SUSAN JOHNSON, ED.D.
RICHARD C. SCHWARTZ, PHD
LINDA GRAHAM, MFT
RICHARD SEARS, PSYD, PHD, MBA, ABPP
JOE KORT, PH.D., LMSW
BRITT H RATHBONE, LCSW-C, ACSW, BCD, CGP
MARY JO BARRETT, MSW
GABOR MATÉ, MD
TAMMY NELSON, PH.D.
JONAH PAQUETTE, PSY.D.
COURTNEY ARMSTRONG, LPC, MHSP
LISA FERENTZ, LCSW-C, DAPA
FRANK ANDERSON, M.D.
KENNETH V. HARDY, PH.D.
IAN KERNER, PHD, LMFT
EDWARD HALLOWELL, MD
CATHERINE PITTMAN, PH.D., HSPP
DAFNA LENDER, LCSW
DAVID TREADWAY, PH.D.
LYNN LYONS, LICSW
SUZANNE IASENZA, PH.D.
DAVID JOBES, PH.D., ABPP
ALEXANDRA SOLOMON, PHD
MICHAEL MITHOEFER, MD
DEANY LALIOTIS, LICSW
JAMES L. FURROW, PH.D.
DEB DANA, LCSW, LICSW
GEORGE FALLER, LMFT
PETER FRAENKEL, PH.D.
HOWARD SCHUBINER, MD
SABRINA N'DIAYE, PH.D., LCSW-C
KENNETH CARTER, PHD, ABPP
MANUELA MISCHKE-REEDS, MA, LMFT
ELLIOTT CONNIE, MA, LPC
ANDREW TATARSKY PH.D.
CANDICE RICHARDSON DICKENS, LCPC-S, LCADC-S, CCTP
STEPHEN SNYDER, MD
SHADEEN FRANCIS, LMFT
DERAN YOUNG, LCSW
JADA MCCRAY, LCSW-C
NOAH GARCIA, MA, LPC-S, NCC
DR. JENNIFER SWEETON, PSY.D., M.S., M.A.
ABI BLAKESLEE, PHD, MFT, CMT, SEP
MEG JAY, PHD
JENNIFER UDLER, LCSW-C
RAMANI DURVASULA, PHD, LCP
JULIANE TAYLOR SHORE, LMFT, LPC
LAURA COPLEY, PHD, LPC
Product:
NRS001440
An Introduction to EFT with Families
Copyright:
3/21/2021
Authors:
JAMES L. FURROW, PH.D.
GEORGE FALLER, LMFT
Product:
NOS096154
Copyright:
3/21/2021
Authors:
JAMES L. FURROW, PH.D.
GEORGE FALLER, LMFT
Product:
NOS096154
Copyright:
3/22/2018
Author:
GEORGE FALLER, LMFT
Product:
NOS095907
Copyright:
3/22/2018
Author:
GEORGE FALLER, LMFT
Product:
NOS095907
Page 1 of 1 (3 Items)
When Male Partners Won't Open Up
Helping Closed-Off Men See Vulnerability as a Path to Healthier Relationships
By George Faller - Many of our clients, especially men, believe in the traditional definition of vulnerability: a state of weakness that leads to being open to attack. But vulnerability is the language of emotionally connected beings, and like a powerful magnet, pain, doubt, fear, mistrust, and other vulnerable states bring forth new opportunities for deep intimacy and transformation, especially in work with couples.
Daily Blog
Page 1 of 1
Talking About the Nightmare
Sometimes, trying to stay calm under pressure sets you up for dealing with it in isolation. It feels counterintuitive to head toward vulnerability. That was my story. I was trained not to be vulnerable.
Magazine Article
Case Study
The Therapist as Traffic Cop: Learning the Hard Way with a Volatile Couple
Being a good traffic cop can mean the difference between success or failure as a couples therapist.* Commentary by Peter Fraenkel
Magazine Article
Case Study
Doing Vulnerability: The Art of Helping Men Open Up
Helping emotionally closed-off men embrace vulnerability without getting lost in shame requires not only empathy but good timing.
Magazine Article
Page 1 of 1 (3 Items)
George Faller, LMFT, is the founder of the New York Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy. He teaches at the Ackerman Institute for the Family and is the director of training at the Center for Hope and Renewal. He’s coauthor of Sacred Stress: A Radical Approach, True Connection: Using NAME IT model to Heal Relationships, and Emotionally Focused Family Therapy: Restoring Connection and Promoting Resilience.
