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Treat Hypersexual Narcissism, Trauma, Gaslighting, Shame & Attachment Wounds
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5/11/2022
Author:
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
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$149.99 USD
Help Clients End Emotional Manipulation and Reclaim Their Lives from Toxic Relationships
Copyright:
4/1/2022
Authors:
STEPHANIE M SARKIS, PHD, NCC, DCMHS, LMHC
 
TERRENCE REAL, LICSW
 
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
 
ARIELLE SCHWARTZ, PHD, CCTP-II, E-RYT
 
KATELYN BAXTER-MUSSER, LCSW, CDBT
 
NANCY JOHNSTON, MS, LPC, LSATP, MAC, NCC
 
LINDSAY C. GIBSON, PSYD
 
AMY E. MARLOW-MACOY, LPC
 
RAMANI DURVASULA, PHD, LCP
 
RHONDA FREEMAN, PHD
 
AMY KEMPE, LPC, NCC, CSAT
 
BRYNN CICIPPIO, LMFT, CAADC
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1/27/2022
Author:
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
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POS058783
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Basic & Beyond for Clinical Challenges
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2/9/2020
Author:
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
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POS059004
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$499.99 USD

Why Are Narcissists So Hard to Treat?

How and When to Push Back

Wendy Behary • 8/17/2018

By Wendy Behary - Narcissists are notoriously difficult clients. The key to working with them is being direct about the roiling emotions they trigger in us, and remembering that their self-aggrandizement almost always covers up painful longings for true connection, intimacy, and a sense that they’re "good enough."

Daily Blog

What to Say When Clients Push Your Buttons

How to Spot, Confront, and Correct Self-Defeating Patterns

Wendy Behary • 3/27/2018

By Wendy Behary - There are ways to deliver profoundly effective, on-the-spot responses during difficult encounters—ways that can mobilize you and restore the receptive, flexible, and empathically attuned you. I've chosen a small sample of a long list of examples that colleagues and trainees have shared with me over the years, including my own personal favorites.

Daily Blog
Copyright:
3/23/2018
Author:
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
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NOS095936
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$179.99 USD
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7/20/2016
Author:
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
Product:
CRS001127
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$299.99 USD     $149.99 USD
Copyright:
11/12/2015
Author:
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
Product:
POS048780
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$439.99 USD     $149.99 USD

Challenging The Narcissist

How to Find Pathways to Empathy

Wendy Behary • 7/8/2013

Given their arrogance, condescension, and lack of empathy, narcissists are notoriously difficult clients. The key to working with them is being direct and transparent about the roiling emotions they trigger in us.

Magazine Article
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Treat Hypersexual Narcissism, Trauma, Gaslighting, Shame & Attachment Wounds
Copyright:
5/11/2022
Author:
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
Product:
POS059003
Type:
$149.99 USD
Help Clients End Emotional Manipulation and Reclaim Their Lives from Toxic Relationships
Copyright:
4/1/2022
Authors:
STEPHANIE M SARKIS, PHD, NCC, DCMHS, LMHC
 
TERRENCE REAL, LICSW
 
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
 
ARIELLE SCHWARTZ, PHD, CCTP-II, E-RYT
 
KATELYN BAXTER-MUSSER, LCSW, CDBT
 
NANCY JOHNSTON, MS, LPC, LSATP, MAC, NCC
 
LINDSAY C. GIBSON, PSYD
 
AMY E. MARLOW-MACOY, LPC
 
RAMANI DURVASULA, PHD, LCP
 
RHONDA FREEMAN, PHD
 
AMY KEMPE, LPC, NCC, CSAT
 
BRYNN CICIPPIO, LMFT, CAADC
Product:
CRS001535
Type:
$929.87 USD     $199.99 USD
Copyright:
1/27/2022
Author:
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
Product:
POS058783
Type:
$59.99 USD
Basic & Beyond for Clinical Challenges
Copyright:
2/9/2020
Author:
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
Product:
POS059004
Type:
$499.99 USD
Copyright:
3/23/2018
Author:
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
Product:
NOS095936
Type:
$179.99 USD
Copyright:
7/20/2016
Author:
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
Product:
CRS001127
Type:
$299.99 USD     $149.99 USD
Copyright:
11/12/2015
Author:
WENDY T. BEHARY, MSW, LCSW
Product:
POS048780
Type:
$439.99 USD     $149.99 USD
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Why Are Narcissists So Hard to Treat?

How and When to Push Back

Wendy Behary • 8/17/2018

By Wendy Behary - Narcissists are notoriously difficult clients. The key to working with them is being direct about the roiling emotions they trigger in us, and remembering that their self-aggrandizement almost always covers up painful longings for true connection, intimacy, and a sense that they’re "good enough."

Daily Blog

What to Say When Clients Push Your Buttons

How to Spot, Confront, and Correct Self-Defeating Patterns

Wendy Behary • 3/27/2018

By Wendy Behary - There are ways to deliver profoundly effective, on-the-spot responses during difficult encounters—ways that can mobilize you and restore the receptive, flexible, and empathically attuned you. I've chosen a small sample of a long list of examples that colleagues and trainees have shared with me over the years, including my own personal favorites.

Daily Blog
Page 1 of 1 (2 Items)

Challenging The Narcissist

How to Find Pathways to Empathy

Wendy Behary • 7/8/2013

Given their arrogance, condescension, and lack of empathy, narcissists are notoriously difficult clients. The key to working with them is being direct and transparent about the roiling emotions they trigger in us.

Magazine Article

In Consultation

The Way To Say It... What to do when your hot buttons get pushed

Wendy Behary • 5/1/2010

Some practical guidelines for handling confrontive and critical clients.

Magazine Article
Page 1 of 1 (2 Items)

With 25 + years of professional experience and advanced level certifications, Wendy Behary is the founder and director of The Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and the Schema Therapy Institutes of NJ-NYC-DC. She has been treating clients, training professionals and supervising psychotherapist for more than 20 years. Wendy was on the faculty of the Cognitive Therapy Center and Schema Therapy Institute of New York (until the Institutes merged in 2012), where she trained and worked with Dr. Jeffrey Young since 1989, she is a founding fellow and consulting supervisor for The Academy of Cognitive Therapy (Aaron T. Beck’s Institute). Wendy served as the President of the Executive Board of the International Society of Schema Therapy (ISST) from 2010-1014 and served as the Training and Certification Coordinator for the ISST Executive Board from 2008-1010. She is currently the chair of the Schema Therapy Development Programs Sub-Committee for the ISST.

Wendy Behary has co-authored several chapters and articles on Schema Therapy and Cognitive Therapy. She is the author of an international bestselling book, Disarming the Narcissist, translated in 15 languages. The Third Edition was released on October 1, 2021. Wendy has a specialty in treating narcissists and the people who live with and deal with them. As an author and an expert on the subject of narcissism, she is a contributing chapter author of several chapter on schema therapy for narcissism for professional readers. She lectures both nationally and internationally to professional and general audiences on schema therapy, narcissism, interpersonal relationships, anger, and dealing with difficult people. She receives consistent high praise for her clear and articulate teaching style and her ability to being the therapy to life through dramatic demonstrations of client interactions in the treatment room.

Her work industry business speaking engagements focus on interpersonal conflict resolution. Her private practice is primarily devoted to treating narcissists, partners/people dealing with them, and couples experiencing relationship problems.