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Esther Perel's Secret to Weathering an Affair

Two Ways Couples Who Bounced Back Made It Happen

Esther Perel • 12/11/2018

By Esther Perel - For several years, I've been contacting couples I've treated to find out more about the long-term impact of the infidelity that brought them to therapy. What were the useful shock absorbers that sustained the couple? Did they think that therapy had helped? I identified three basic patterns in the way couples reorganize themselves after an infidelity.

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VIDEO: Esther Perel on the New Rules of Love and Commitment

How Boomers Shaped Millennial Romance

Esther Perel • 11/14/2018

Couples therapist Esther Perel has been recognized as one of the world’s most original and insightful thinkers about couples, sexuality, and the peculiar paradoxes besetting modern marriage in the Western world. In this clip from her Networker Symposium keynote, she talks about the complicated and contradictory needs that are shaping Millennial marriage and commitment today.

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Esther Perel on the Paradox of Masculinity

What Does It Mean to Be a “Real” Man Today?

Esther Perel • 11/8/2018

By Esther Perel - Feminism has given women a new narrative, but it hasn’t offered men a particularly new one that they can identify with. Ultimately, the lives of women will not change until the lives of men come along. What can therapists contribute to the current conversation about our gender politics and the meaning of masculinity and femininity today?

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Copyright:
6/20/2018
Authors:
RICHARD SIMON, PH.D.
 
ESTHER PEREL, MA, LMFT
 
RICHARD SCHWARTZ, PHD
 
WILLIAM DOHERTY, PH.D.
 
MARY JO BARRETT, MSW
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The Myths About Male Sexuality

Esther Perel on Challenging the Definitional Void of Manhood

Esther Perel • 5/26/2018

By Esther Perel - At this moment in our society, we’re experiencing a reckoning in the relationships between men and women, in the relationships between gender and anatomy, and in the relationships between sex and power. As therapists, we have a unique role at this moment. We need to help create a culture where men can express their needs in more than just the masculine code of sex.

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Our Myths about Sexuality

Highlights from Symposium 2018

Esther Perel • 5/9/2018

Esther Perel called on the Symposium audience to challenge the various myths, especially those about male sexuality, that get in the way of deeper relational authenticity and more fulfilling ways of navigating modern relationships.

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VIDEO: Esther Perel on the New, Uncertain Landscape of Love

What Role Do Therapists Play?

Esther Perel • 4/18/2018

Our relational lives are undergoing a radical shift, says Esther Perel, couples therapist, bestselling author, and TED speaker. In the following video clip from her 2018 Symposium Keynote, "The Future of Modern Love," Perel explains why today's romantic landscape—and the questions we're asking ourselves about desire and couplehood—are unprecedented, and what therapists have to offer clients who come to us for guidance.

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Copyright:
1/18/2018
Authors:
RICHARD SIMON, PH.D.
 
ESTHER PEREL, MA, LMFT
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VIDEO: Esther Perel on the Legacy of Salvador Minuchin

From the 2017 Symposium's Celebration of a Family Therapy Visionary

Esther Perel • 11/8/2017

A maverick and a visionary in the ’60s and ’70s, Salvador Minuchin transformed the very idea of what a therapist was supposed to be. Beyond that, he put forth a brand new model of psychotherapy—family therapy. In the following video clip from the 2017 Symposium dinner event celebrating Minuchin's work, renowned couples therapist Esther Perel shares her memories of working alongside Minuchin when she was just beginning work as a young therapist.

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VIDEO: Esther Perel on How to Talk with Men About Intimacy

Framing Intimacy as a Regular Part of Life

Esther Perel • 8/30/2017

In this quick video clip, renowned sex therapist and author Esther Perel shows you how to interweave questions and observations about sexuality throughout a clinical session to expand a client’s understanding of its significance in all aspects of his life.

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Copyright:
6/20/2018
Authors:
RICHARD SIMON, PH.D.
 
ESTHER PEREL, MA, LMFT
 
RICHARD SCHWARTZ, PHD
 
WILLIAM DOHERTY, PH.D.
 
MARY JO BARRETT, MSW
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ESTHER PEREL, MA, LMFT
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10/29/2015
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ESTHER PEREL, MA, LMFT
 
SUSAN JOHNSON, ED.D.
 
MICHELE WEINER-DAVIS, MSW
 
IAN KERNER, PHD, LMFT
 
SUZANNE IASENZA, PHD
 
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Navigating New Norms about Intimacy, Sexuality, Personal Freedom and the Purpose of Marriage
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JOHN M. GOTTMAN, PH.D.
 
JULIE GOTTMAN, PH.D.
 
RICHARD SIMON, PH.D.
 
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ESTHER PEREL, MA, LMFT
 
MICHELE WEINER-DAVIS, MSW
 
SUZANNE IASENZA, PHD
 
WILLIAM DOHERTY, PH.D.
 
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What Science Tells Us and Beyond with Julie Schwartz Gottman, Ph.D. and John Gottman, Ph.D.
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ESTHER PEREL, MA, LMFT
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JULIE GOTTMAN, PH.D.
 
ESTHER PEREL, MA, LMFT
 
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JOHN M. GOTTMAN, PH.D.
 
JULIE GOTTMAN, PH.D.
 
BESSEL A VAN DER KOLK, M.D.
 
PETER A. LEVINE, PH.D.
 
RICHARD SCHWARTZ, PHD
 
JON KABAT-ZINN, PH.D.
 
DAVID GRAND, PH.D.
 
ELISHA GOLDSTEIN, PH.D.
 
ESTHER PEREL, MA, LMFT
 
JANINA FISHER, PH.D.
 
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JAMES COAN, PHD
 
DAVID FEINSTEIN, PH.D.
 
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SUSAN JOHNSON, ED.D.
 
ESTHER PEREL, MA, LMFT
 
JAY LEBOW, PHD
 
ROSALIND BARNETT, EDD, LCSW, LCAD
 
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Esther Perel's Secret to Weathering an Affair

Two Ways Couples Who Bounced Back Made It Happen

Esther Perel • 12/11/2018

By Esther Perel - For several years, I've been contacting couples I've treated to find out more about the long-term impact of the infidelity that brought them to therapy. What were the useful shock absorbers that sustained the couple? Did they think that therapy had helped? I identified three basic patterns in the way couples reorganize themselves after an infidelity.

Daily Blog

VIDEO: Esther Perel on the New Rules of Love and Commitment

How Boomers Shaped Millennial Romance

Esther Perel • 11/14/2018

Couples therapist Esther Perel has been recognized as one of the world’s most original and insightful thinkers about couples, sexuality, and the peculiar paradoxes besetting modern marriage in the Western world. In this clip from her Networker Symposium keynote, she talks about the complicated and contradictory needs that are shaping Millennial marriage and commitment today.

Daily Blog

Esther Perel on the Paradox of Masculinity

What Does It Mean to Be a “Real” Man Today?

Esther Perel • 11/8/2018

By Esther Perel - Feminism has given women a new narrative, but it hasn’t offered men a particularly new one that they can identify with. Ultimately, the lives of women will not change until the lives of men come along. What can therapists contribute to the current conversation about our gender politics and the meaning of masculinity and femininity today?

Daily Blog

The Myths About Male Sexuality

Esther Perel on Challenging the Definitional Void of Manhood

Esther Perel • 5/26/2018

By Esther Perel - At this moment in our society, we’re experiencing a reckoning in the relationships between men and women, in the relationships between gender and anatomy, and in the relationships between sex and power. As therapists, we have a unique role at this moment. We need to help create a culture where men can express their needs in more than just the masculine code of sex.

Daily Blog

VIDEO: Esther Perel on the New, Uncertain Landscape of Love

What Role Do Therapists Play?

Esther Perel • 4/18/2018

Our relational lives are undergoing a radical shift, says Esther Perel, couples therapist, bestselling author, and TED speaker. In the following video clip from her 2018 Symposium Keynote, "The Future of Modern Love," Perel explains why today's romantic landscape—and the questions we're asking ourselves about desire and couplehood—are unprecedented, and what therapists have to offer clients who come to us for guidance.

Daily Blog

VIDEO: Esther Perel on the Legacy of Salvador Minuchin

From the 2017 Symposium's Celebration of a Family Therapy Visionary

Esther Perel • 11/8/2017

A maverick and a visionary in the ’60s and ’70s, Salvador Minuchin transformed the very idea of what a therapist was supposed to be. Beyond that, he put forth a brand new model of psychotherapy—family therapy. In the following video clip from the 2017 Symposium dinner event celebrating Minuchin's work, renowned couples therapist Esther Perel shares her memories of working alongside Minuchin when she was just beginning work as a young therapist.

Daily Blog

VIDEO: Esther Perel on How to Talk with Men About Intimacy

Framing Intimacy as a Regular Part of Life

Esther Perel • 8/30/2017

In this quick video clip, renowned sex therapist and author Esther Perel shows you how to interweave questions and observations about sexuality throughout a clinical session to expand a client’s understanding of its significance in all aspects of his life.

Daily Blog

Helping Parents Rekindle the Erotic Spark

Why Does Parenthood Deliver Such a Fatal Blow to Intimacy?

Esther Perel • 7/21/2017

By Esther Perel - The transition from two to three is one of the most profound challenges a couple will ever face. Family life flourishes in an atmosphere of comfort and consistency. Yet unpredictability, spontaneity, and risk are precisely where eroticism resides. Eros is a force that doesn't like to be constrained. When it settles into repetition, habit, or rules, it touches its death.

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Therapy Techniques to Help Struggling Couples Create Erotic Experiences

Esther Perel on Why Good Intimacy Doesn't Equal Good Sex

Esther Perel • 2/11/2016

It’s long been the conventional wisdom among couples therapists that if couples fix the emotional issues in their relationship, their sexual lives will improve. However, good intimacy doesn’t guarantee good sex. Couples today are confronting a new frontier in the basic understanding of what marriage is all about. Since most of us grew up in sexual silence, therapists need to ask more probing questions when it comes to doing good couples therapy.

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VIDEO: Are You Comfortable Talking about Sex with the Couples You See?

Esther Perel on How to Strengthen this Essential Capacity and Why It’s So Important

Esther Perel • 1/4/2016

Many traditional approaches to couples therapy are built on the assumption that if you help a couple clear up the emotional issues in their relationship, sex will automatically get better. . . . But it doesn’t seem to work that way.

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Our Myths about Sexuality

Highlights from Symposium 2018

Esther Perel • 5/9/2018

Esther Perel called on the Symposium audience to challenge the various myths, especially those about male sexuality, that get in the way of deeper relational authenticity and more fulfilling ways of navigating modern relationships.

Magazine Article

Turns in the Road

Highlights from the Networker Journey

Mary Sykes Wylie, Dusty Miller, Esther Perel, Frank Pittman, Fred Wistow, Gary Greenberg, Katy Butler, Laura Markowitz, Molly Layton, Rich Simon, Ron Taffel • 1/1/2017

Out of all the hundreds and hundreds of articles that have appeared in the Networker over the past four decades, we’ve chosen a small sampling that captures the magazine’s most journalistic side, conveying not so much the eternal verities of our profession, but the sense of reading a first draft of the field’s history. Among other things, you’ll find therapeutic methods that, as exciting as they seemed at the moment, didn’t stand the test of time as well as initial forays into discussing complex issues we’re still struggling with today. We’ve also added in a few examples of writing so immediate and compelling that they have an air of timelessness. Prepare yourself for an interesting journey.

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The Mystery of Eroticism

Esther Perel • 1/11/2016

It’s long been the conventional wisdom among couples therapists that if couples fix the emotional issues in their relationship, their sexual lives will improve. However, good intimacy doesn’t guarantee good sex. Couples today are confronting a new frontier in the basic understanding of what marriage is all about. Since most of us grew up in sexual silence, therapists need to ask more probing questions when it comes to doing good couples therapy.

Magazine Article

After the Storm

The Affair In Retrospect

Esther Perel • 7/1/2010

As therapists, we have an unquenchable desire to find happy ending for troubled clients, especially those weathering the crisis of infidelity. But what happens months or years later to those couples once our work with has concluded.

Magazine Article

When Three Threatens Two

Must Parenthood Bring Down the Curtain on Romance?

Esther Perel • 9/1/2006

It takes time—measured in years, not weeks,—for couples to find their bearings again after the birth of a child, and many never do.

Magazine Article

Erotic Intelligence

Reconciling Sensuality and Domesticity

Esther Perel • 5/2/2003

Many therapists fail to recognize that sexual desire doesn't always play by the rules of good citizenship. By counseling political correctness in the bedroom, they miss the point of eroticism captured in Bunel's famous pronouncement that "sex without sin is like an egg without salt."

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Esther Perel, MA, LMFT, is recognized as one of the most insightful and provocative voices on personal and professional relationships and the complex science behind human interaction. She is the best-selling author of Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence (translated into 25 languages) and producer of the online training continuation, Rekindling Desire.

Fluent in nine languages, the Belgian native is a practicing psychotherapist, celebrated speaker and organization consultant to Fortune 500 companies. The New York Times, in a cover story, named her the most important game changer on sexuality and relationships since Dr. Ruth.

Her critically acclaimed viral TED Talks (The secret to desire in a Long-term Relationship, February 2013 and Rethinking Infidelity .. a Talk for Anyone Who has ever Loved, May 2015) have collectively reached over 14 million viewers.

Known for her keen cross-cultural pulse, Esther shifts the paradigm of our approach to modern relationships. She is regularly sought around the world for her expertise in relational health and communication, team building, erotic intelligence, couples and family identity, work-life balance, and corporate relationships. Her clients and platforms include companies such as Nike, Johnson & Johnson, the Open Society Institute, Tony Robbins Productions, Brighthouse Consulting, Summit Series, Founder’s Forum, PopTech, Young Presidents Organization, Entrepreneur Organization, and the Bronfman Foundation.

Esther’s innovative models for building strong and lasting relationships have been widely featured in the media across 5 continents spanning The New York Times, The Washington Post, The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, Le Monde, Ha’Aretz and The Guardian, The New Yorker, Fast Company, and Vogue. She is a frequent guest on radio and television shows including NPR’s “Brian Lehrer show”, “Oprah”, “The Today Show”, “Dr. OZ” and “The Colbert Report”. For more information about her educational programs and resources, please visit: www.estherperel.com