How to Meet Stress with Tenderness during COVID-19
During the pandemic, our clients’ relationships need special attention and nurturing. Sometimes that means helping them recalibrate what they can hold for each other.
A Wounded Healer’s Journey
As therapists, our job is to do our best for our clients. But even our best efforts can’t always ensure that therapy will help, or even that we don’t do harm.
Do Any of Really Know What's Right?
By David Treadway - How do any of us therapists know what’s good enough in the unfolding of people’s lives? I know I practice an often intuitive craft, not an exact and predictable science. The truth is that all too often, like most practitioners, I can never be quite sure how much difference my bit part plays in the unfolding drama of clients' lives.
From an Evening of Storytelling 2018
What happens to a buttoned-up young therapist when things get out of hand in his office?
Why Homework is So Important, and Six Ways to Make Sure Your Clients Do It
By David Treadway - Over the years, the couples in my practice who’ve actually done homework exercises have reported communicating better and being more affectionate and more supportive of each other than couples who haven’t. To make sure I’m successful in motivating them, I use these six techniques.
Taking Therapy Home: Motivating Couples to Do Their Homework
Motivating couples to do their therapy homework may be the key to successful outcomes.
A Special Feature from Our Family Matters Department
By David Treadway - With his father's help, a young therapist contemplates the biggest gamble of his life.
What Do You Tell Your Clients...and Yourself?
By David Treadway - Many of us of a certain age live with the fear of early-onset dementia, cognitive impairment, Alzheimer’s—call it what you will. But incrementally becoming a vacant body to be tended, fed, changed, pitied was my worst nightmare.
A Diary of Riding Out the Storm
A therapist discovers what it means to be fully present, even in the face of the terrifying prospect of a declining mind.
A Meditation Retreat Helps a Therapist Confront Cancer Trauma
I've been working hard on integrating Buddhist teachings and meditation practice into my life for six years now. But none of my spiritual practice prepared for my stage IV non-Hodgkins lymphoma that turned my life upside down two years ago. I was extremely sick and given a small chance to survive. In the first weeks, I spoke easily about the transformational power of illness, the gift of cancer. I thought I'd become enlightened. But in reality, I was out of my mind, quite dissociative. Buddhism doesn't mean being detached, uncaring, disengaged. I came to this retreat out of desperation. I'm here to learn how to live again.