Giving Stuck Clients a Therapy Experience Like They've Never Had Before
Cloe Madanes • 5/17/2018
By Cloe Madanes - There are times when clients are so deeply stuck, not just in the unhappy circumstances of their pain, but in the unshakable sense that nothing they do will make any difference, that they need a little benign shaking up.
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Not Every Teachable Moment Has to Be a Successful One
Cloe Madanes • 1/4/2018
By Cloe Madanes - The problem with a failure is that one doesn't really understand why one failed. If one did, it wouldn't have been a failure. But I'm not giving up on my toughest client, Bob. There's one strategy I still haven't used.
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Using Family Therapy's Origins to Fix a Broken Mental Health System
Cloe Madanes • 4/10/2015
During the height of the family therapy movement, the healing power of the family was respected, and medication and out-of-home placements were considered a last resort. For a variety of reasons, that era has passed, and countertherapeutic economic forces have come to dominate treatment decisions. We need to reexamine our values as a profession and rediscover the activism of the days when the DSM didn’t so thoroughly limit our perspective and clinicians were encouraged to think beyond narrow diagnostic categories and embrace the fuller complexities of human systems.
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Cloe Madanes • 3/1/2015
Let’s unite to stand up to vested interests that have taken over the mental health system.
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The Art of Speaking the Unspeakable
Cloe Madanes • 7/2/2014
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The Art of Speaking the Unspeakable
Cloe Madanes • 3/7/2014
Using humor to help clients reconstruct their problems, even to the point of making parodies of their own dilemmas, can help some them get distance from their woes, learn to take themselves less seriously, and perhaps even gain a bit of wisdom.
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How to Succeed at Self-Sabotage
Cloe Madanes • 11/5/2013
Making yourself profoundly unhappy takes tenacity and creativity. But the real art of it is to behave in ways that allow you to claim yourself to be an innocent victim, ideally of the very people from whom you’re forcibly extracting compassion and pity.
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Finding the Offer a Client Can't Refuse
Cloe Madanes • 11/1/2000
After 20 years of teaching therapy, but not doing it myself, I decided I needed a lesson in humility. What better way to experience humility than to be a therapist? So I started a small practice that basically consisted of taking on the cases that, for a variety of reasons, other therapists couldn't handle: sexual violence, heartbreaking drama, money problems, celebrities. And I was quite successful, to the point that the lesson in humility was escaping me. Until I met Bob.
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