Refeathering the Nest
From Dutiful Daughter to Self-Aware Caregiver
Katy Butler • When families become stressed by a member's long-term care needs, it's easy to continue the usual relationship patterns and perpetuate long-standing resentments. But sometimes it's possible to learn new ways of being and interacting.
Caring for the Caregiver
Katy Butler • Those who care for ailing family members often are undertaking a marathon, not a sprint.
Reliable Witness
What it Takes to be with Your Clients to the End
Barry J. Jacobs • Few of us instinctively know what to do and say when families are confronting the death of a loved one. But we can start by being with them in the struggle.
Winter Passage
Acknowledging Spirituality in Life's Final Journey
David Seaburn • Drawing on spiritual resources can ease the pain and sorrow of death for client and therapist alike.
Hello, Darkness
Discovering our Values by Confronting Our Fears
Steven Hayes • Learning to accept our fears as guideposts to who we really want to be.




By Rich Simon As therapists, many of us practice in two different worlds. In the first, we see polite, well-behaved, articulate clients with solid values. They engage fully in therapy, talk cogently about their problems, listen attentively to our responses, make reasonably good-faith efforts to follow our suggestions, and sooner or later get better. No wonder we genuinely like these people! 

