By Rich Simon As therapists, many of us practice in two different worlds. In the first, we see polite, well-behaved, articulate clients with solid values. They engage fully in therapy, talk cogently about their problems, listen attentively to our responses, make reasonably good-faith efforts to follow our suggestions, and sooner or later get better. No wonder we genuinely like these people!
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Enhanced Learning ForumThank you all—seasoned webinar-users and techno-phobes alike—for being part of today’s webinar with Dan. During Dan’s Wheel of Awareness exercise, I was struck by two things. First, it became so apparent to me that perhaps the distinguishing characteristic of our humanity is that we’re all symphonic conductors, coordinating in our unique ways the unimaginable vast range of sensory, cognitive, and neural capabilities that live inside of us. The second is how little of this vast orchestra most of us utilize or even pay attention to in our day-to-day lives. Instead we allow our world to narrow into familiar patterns of thought, sensation and feelings as if that’s all that life could be. At the heart of therapeutic work is the shift that Dan described moving from being passengers simply drawn along through life to recognizing our ability to be captains actively directly the course of our own development. The Wheel of Awareness was a mini-demonstration for me what it might mean to shift from one relationship to life to another. Just to clarify your assignment before next week’s session, there are two components of what Dan’s asked us to do: one experiential exercise and a conceptual activity. Both would be enhanced greatly by sharing experiences, ideas and questions with someone on the Study Buddy list as you go over with each other reactions and personal highlights from the first webinar session. First, Dan asked us to take time over the next several days to return regularly to the Wheel of Awareness and concentrate on one segment of the rim each day. Find a quiet place for just a few moments every day and take some time to concentrate alternately on your external senses, intero-sensations, mental activities, and your relational segment. Just notice what happens as you do. Second, he’d like us to consider the Triangle of Well-Being, whose points encompass Relationship, Brain, and Mind, and consider: how are these three concepts related? What’s shared among mind, brain, and relationships, and how are they central to our experience of self and other? Dan would like us to explore these questions, and we’ll discuss them further next time. We invite everyone to post thoughts, ideas, and related experiences throughout the week on the Enhanced Learning Forum. Particularly valuable would be hearing from everyone how you’ve begun to integrate any ideas, insights or discoveries from the webinar into your practice and your daily life. Thank you all for helping us create together the learning community that is this webinar—see you next week! Comments Post-Session Comment BoardPlease take a moment to put into words whatever stood out for you about today’s webinar. It might be a particular bit of information, a new insight, a reaction to the overall experience of the session, or an unexpected connection that might not have occurred to you before. By contributing to the Comment Board, you’re not only stimulating your own brain, you're contributing to the entire group’s overall sense of discovery and exploration. To give us all a better feeling of community, we invite you to include your name and hometown with whatever posting you care to make. Comments The Relationship RevolutionWell, it’s arrived: the September/October issue is online! I think that this is a really special issue--truly, this topic of how our human relationships are affected by our digital ones is extremely relevant. Read more Comments Dan Siegel's September SeriesI think there’s just something universally difficult about coming back to everyday life after a long holiday weekend like Labor Day. Sometimes it’s because having that extra day to sleep in throws you off schedule, and sometimes it’s because that long weekend was actually spent accomplishing more on your ever-growing to-do list. In any case, most people seem to feel that their week afterward--even if the week is only four days!--is unusually tiresome. Read moreComments Back Issues: Oldies, But GoodiesThese days, news is considered “old” if a piece is written even a few hours ago. With so much technology at our fingertips, everyone strives to know what’s going on right now. It used to be that school textbooks might have been updated every few years or so but now, many are revised yearly to include current events or encourage new online resources. Read more Comments The Today Show Interviews “Emerging Adulthood” AuthorEarly this morning, I thought my half-asleep mind must have been playing tricks on me when I heard the name Jeffrey Arnett--the author of “Emerging Adulthood: The Winding Road from the Late Teens to the Twenties” who I blogged about yesterday--on the Today show. But a few hours and cups of coffee later, I remembered to check out the Today show morning segments, and there he really was! Read more Comments This Generation of 20-somethings: Why Are They Different?Today is the first day of school. Not for me--as I sit in front of my office computer rather than in front of a professor--but for many. For those still in college, for my brother beginning his very first day of college classes, and for tons of other kids around the country. Some students don’t begin until after Labor Day, but you can almost feel it crackling in the air, that first-day-of-school expectancy fluttering around, affecting thousands of students, parents, teachers, administrators, and others. Read more Comments Eating Our Emotions—Judith Matz’s “Attuned Eating” ApproachRecently, Judith Matz’s In Consultation article (July/August) received compliments from a reader who also specializes in emotional eating. “It’s about time this approach gets some mainstream lip service!” she writes. “This article so clearly articulates what is truly at issue here.” Read more Comments Can Man’s Best Friend Experience PTSD From War?I’ve been learning a bit about post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) lately because in our upcoming September issue, we briefly explore technology intended to help individuals suffering from PTSD, particularly vets traumatized from experiences in Iraq. Today, this AP news article really caught my eye, which says that a German shepherd exhibited signs of PTSD after performing her duties with the military in Iraq. Comments Networker Articles Admired By AlterNet FansThe Networker was featured again yesterday on news site, AlterNet.org--this time not just for one specific article, but to showcase the increasing popularity of Networker articles among its readers. Read moreComments Journey into the WildernessWhile immersing myself in Dick Anderson’s “Seeking the Silence” (July/August,) I felt that familiar feeling of awe that comes from observing someone do something that I could never do myself! It’s like when I’ve attended a particularly good concert, or when I've seen something remarkable like the performers in Cirque du Soleil. I always think, "Wow. . . I wish I could do that!" Read more Comments The “New Monogamy” Hits the NewsThe Networker made the news earlier this week with one of the leading stories in our July issue, Tammy Nelson’s “The New Monogamy.” The Washington Post featured this piece in their Health section, displaying some of the more controversial ideas covered in Nelson’s article. Comments Is the “New Monogamy” New? And other reactionsThanks, Deborah A., for posting such an informative comment on the online version of Tammy Nelson’s “The New Monogamy.” Deborah complimented the article as “honest, insightful, and self-disclosing” but she also said that she’s “amused and disturbed” by the label of new monogamy. Read moreComments “The New Monogamy”I thought this month’s issue was so interesting, to say the least! I feel that the “new monogamy,” as author Tammy Nelson puts it, is definitely reflected in everyday life and in the media. I was also intrigued by the cover question: “Can we have our cake and eat it too?” Read more Comments Lynn Grodzki's Marketing Within Your Comfort ZoneToday, part 2 of Lynn Grodzki’s Practice-building in Hard Times, fit perfectly with the themes and strategies she emphasized last Wednesday. She focused today on marketing within our comfort zones, Read more Comments Lynn Grodzki's Practice-Building in Hard TimesToday’s session with Lynn Grodzki was incredibly clear, practical, and insightful. Although I don’t have a private psychotherapy practice, I learned a lot of important information that would be helpful to anybody especially in these rough economic times. Read more Comments Rich Simon to be Awarded Mental Health Media PrizeEditor Rich Simon--our very own Networker rock star--will be honored for his editorial excellence with The Erikson Institute Prize for Excellence in Mental Health Media. This new award, presented by the Erik H. Erikson Institute for Education and Research, pays tribute to Rich Simon as well as NPR reporter Alix Spiegel and Erica Goode of The New York Times. Read more Comments Lynn Grodzki'sTo everyone who registered for today's one-on-one with Lynn Grodzki: everyone here at Psychotherapy Networker sincerely apologizes for the inconvenience. We are so sorry about the technical difficulties that happened today, and are working to ensure that this will never happen again. Please tune in for Lynn Grodzki's session to explore how to "survive and thrive" in these difficult times, next Wednesday, 12-1 pm. More information and details are soon to come. Thanks so much again for your patience. Comments The Tug-of-War over TraumaSusan Clancy’s article, “The Trauma Myth”, published in the March/April Networker, is getting renewed buzz from its recent appearance on Alternet.com. This excerpt, from her book with the same title, has fueled a wide range of reactions, from appreciation to disgust. Read moreComments Positively Controversial--Ehrenreich’s Book is causing a StirBarbara Ehrenreich’s 2009 book about the intricacies of positive psychology--which she doesn’t think is such a positive contribution to the country--has evoked strong emotions from its readers. Read moreComments |