By Rich Simon As therapists, many of us practice in two different worlds. In the first, we see polite, well-behaved, articulate clients with solid values. They engage fully in therapy, talk cogently about their problems, listen attentively to our responses, make reasonably good-faith efforts to follow our suggestions, and sooner or later get better. No wonder we genuinely like these people!
Rich interrupted him nunmerous times which I feel was disrutptful. Rich would ask him a question and not allow him to expand on his process. I felt that Alan was making sense and giving needed information. The interruptions were so frequent that it actually interrupted Alan giving information on the topics on the slide. I appreciate the fact that Rich was trying to get Alan to either give a case study or describe his process with clients, but I feel Alan did describe his process as well as a non verbal process can be described.
Charlie Love
Austin, TX.
Thanks to everyone for contributing to this lively debate.
I am an Imago Therapist but appreciate David's focus on buiding self reliance.
Charlie Love, MS, LPC, LMFT
Austin, Texas
Charlie Love
Austin, Tx.
According to Kaplan, attachment is not variable to over all function, but it is to relational satisfaction.
Charlie Love,
Austin, Tx
Charlie Love
Austin, Tx.
Charlie Love, Austin, Tx.
Bill gave tangible example of what could of often does go wrong and what can remedy the situation. I agreed that couples need to feel secure in the session because the therapist is there as a strong facilitator, well versed in handling explosions, sarcasms and interruptions. I liked how he addresses boundary invasion and acknowledges the intrusion into the other person's process. There are so many nuances to good couples therapy and Bill certainly is contributing by his knowledge and openness around own his mistakes. Thanks for an informational and engaged hour. Charlie Love, Austin, TX.