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NP0038: Who’s Afraid of Couples Therapy?

Welcome to our “Who’s Afraid of Couples Therapy?” This exciting series, back by popular demand, is based on our November/December 2011 issue on this topic and will explore the challenges of couples work. What are the most effective strategies in working with couples? How can therapists structure therapy—particularly in the early sessions—so that couples leave with a sense of hope, rather than frustration? Can working with individuals who have serious issues in their relationships actually be detrimental to them? Find out the answers to these questions and much more. In this first session with expert couples therapists Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson, the creators of the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy, you’ll find out why clinicians often avoid working with couples and how you can better prepare yourself for couples therapy work. How can therapists most effectively work with emotion in the consulting room—particularly when it comes to couples therapy? Learn with internationally known couples therapist Hedy Schleifer how to help create a nourishing connection between partners, define a role as therapist-as-guide, and much more. Schleifer, who’s pioneered the training of Imago Relationship therapists internationally, will go into how to use this theory in practice and how to best work with emotions. What happens when partners in couples therapy have two different agendas in mind? Hear from expert William Doherty on this little spoken about topic. Learn how Discernment Counseling, an approach that helps couples clarify their feelings about the next step in their relationship, can help both clients and therapists. Is it possible to rebuild trust and intimacy in a couple’s relationship after a partner has had an affair? How can therapists help? Hear from Esther Perel, author of the international bestseller Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence, on how to help couples after an infidelity and the role that cultural perspectives have in this emotional situation. Explore this classic dynamic of couples therapy—an angry woman and a withdrawn man—that’s often confusing for therapists, with couples therapist Jette Simon. Learn more about what’s behind the feelings of anger and the behavior of withdrawing, and how clinicians can more effectively work with shame and fear of disconnection. Hear an unconventional perspective on couples therapy from David Schnarch, who believes that the best way to help couples is to challenge partners to change their individual behaviors and attitudes. Schnarch’s direct, upfront approach to helping clients will illustrate a different viewpoint on effective couples therapy. Join Marty Klein, a marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist, us for a candid discussion about the assumptions that both clients and therapists often share that can get in the way of improving couples’ sexual relationships. Discover with Kathryn Rheem how to respond effectively when clients express strong feelings in session. Based on Emotionally Focused Therapy, you’ll explore attunement and how to use your own emotions to help clients move beyond attachment injuries. After the session, please let us know what you think. If you ever have any technical questions or issues, please feel free to email support@psychotherapynetworker.org.

Whole Psychiatry: Alternatives to Conventional Psychopharmacology with Robert Hedaya

Meds: Myths and Realities: NP0035 – Session 4

Is psychopharmacology is a 'go-to' in your practice? Join Robert Hedaya as he discusses how to treat the bodily systems that underlay many mental health issues while avoiding medication. After the session, please let us know what you think. If you ever have any technical questions or issues, please feel free to email support@psychotherapynetworker.org.

Treating the Mixed-Agenda Couple

Bill Doherty On An Approach For Unaligned Relationships

Tough Customers: Is It Them or Us?

Tough CustomersBy Rich Simon As therapists, many of us practice in two different worlds. In the first, we see polite, well-behaved, articulate clients with solid values. They engage fully in therapy, talk cogently about their problems, listen attentively to our responses, make reasonably good-faith efforts to follow our suggestions, and sooner or later get better. No wonder we genuinely like these people!
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The 5 Ingredients of Effective Trauma Treatment with Mary Jo Barrett

 

I just have to say “wow.” What an incredible session. I always love hearing Mary Jo present because she’s such an incredibly clear speaker and seems so down-to-earth. I have this overriding feeling of trust in her—she knows what she’s doing, based on both her experience and research, and although she’s confident in her work, she’s organized and meticulous about staying in the moment and being deliberate.


Although there’s a lot of interesting content and anecdotes packed into this one-hour session (I actually took 5 pages of notes….single spaced!), I think what stood out most to me has to do with what her therapy is largely about—creating a context for collaborative change. Collaboration is a key theme in Mary Jo’s work. mary_jo_barrett-105

It pervades every stage of her model and permeates every session with clients. Mary Jo emphasizes creating a collaborative relationship with clients, but particularly with trauma clients, to ensure that therapy itself isn’t a traumatic experience. She uses psychoeducation as a tool to help clients identify and utilize internal and external resources.

The part of her session that really struck a chord with me was when she spoke about integrating treatments for trauma clients. She says a lot of specific models are already commonly part of trauma work—like Dialectical Behavior Therapy, which largely focuses on mindfulness practices—and that no matter which model therapists use, other approaches need to be integrated, depending on the specific client’s needs and resources. Mary Jo says that with any one client, she may do an EMDR session, a neurofeedback session, some biofeedback, some CBT, or recommend yoga. She says that, as the trauma therapist, even though she’s not an expert on all of these specific interventions, she needs to be informed about them and help the client find the right interventions. She also said that therapists should call on each other’s strengths to help clients.

“Even if you don’t work in a place like [The Center for Contextual Change], you live in a community. We’re not going to lose money if we refer to each other,” she says. “There’s no way anybody should say they’ve been in trauma treatment if their partners or families or kids haven’t been involved. We need to work together in a healthy way.”

Personally, I thought the way in which her theme of collaboration reached the therapist-client relationship, the structure of the treatment, and even how therapists should and can work together was really inspiring. What stood out to you most about this session?

As an overview of her session, I’ll provide a quick outline of her 5 ingredients to effective trauma treatment here:

(Spoiler Alert: If you haven’t yet watched this session, please pause here! Then, read on and let us know what you think.)

1.    The therapist-client relationship: clients value the therapist because the therapist values the clients; clients feel therapy is a partnership in which they are empowered.
2.    Concrete and useful skills: for example, mindfulness, communication, and parenting skills.
3.    Strength orientation: utilizing clients’ strengths to design the treatment.
4.    Safety: the predictability and structure of the therapy make clients feel safe. As Mary Jo says, “Therapy is not happening to them—it’s happening with them.”
5.    Creating workable realities: the therapist has to have confidence in the effectiveness of the work and organize the structure of the treatment.

Although there’s so much great content in Mary Jo’s session, this was the essence of what she discussed—collaboration between clients and therapists, and collaboration between everyone who comprises the trauma treatment field. The other significant part of her recommended approach is following a structured model that’s proven its effectiveness over decades of outcome research, while remaining flexible and staying attuned to specific clients’ needs.

I know I came away from this session feeling like I learned so much about providing effective trauma treatment—what struck you most about this session? What questions remain for you? What was most appealing to you out of the way she works? What was most inspiring? See other participants’ thoughts about this presentation on the comment board here.

*Also, if you enjoyed this session, you may be interested in seeing Mary Jo Barrett in person at Symposium 2012. She’s presenting two workshops: “Customizing Trauma Treatment,” an all-day expansion of the content presented in this session and  "Ethical Dilemmas,” in which she’ll delve into some of the complicated ethical problems she referred to in this session.

02.10.2012   Posted In: NETWORKER EXCHANGE   By Jordan Magaziner
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  • Not available avatar Shirley Hanson 03.05.2012 14:18
    I am a seasoned MFT. I really enjoyed this session by Mary Jo Barrett and Rich Simon. Although very basic, it was a good review and it presented new information. I especially liked her discussion about the "crush" she developed on a client and what that looked like.
    As a supervisor, these issues come up all the time.
    I am not clear where I can get more readings by this speaker. Can you sent me some resources?
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