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Q: I’d like to organize a peer supervision group, but I’ve heard their failure rate is high. What do you recommend? A: Peer supervision groups provide a welcome respite from the isolation of private practice and an informal, nonevaluative setting after years of formal supervision, particularly for young therapists. They offer valuable guidance on difficult cases and tough ethical dilemmas to therapists at any level of experience. And they’re free! However, as you note, many of them fail. In my experience, careful attention to the initial contract and the ongoing group process can make a huge difference in helping them sustain their membership and thrive. Though they’re often called peer supervision groups, it would be more accurate to call them peer consultation groups. Members don’t have direct supervisory responsibility for one another’s cases: they simply offer suggestions, which members can accept or reject. 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They can fail to thrive or suffer from “task drift,” moving them away from discussing clinical material and into a form of therapy. It can be difficult to integrate new members and maintain clarity about the group’s own process. Presenting cases in supervision in any format poses obvious risks to one’s self-esteem, and group dynamics add additional risks: issues of power, competition, exposure, and shame can lead members to drop out. It’s especially challenging to manage group dynamics in leaderless groups, as it’s usually the leader’s role to remain aware of what’s happening within the group, and without a leader in charge, shame or fear of being judged may silence members. The most successful leaderless groups seem to be those in which the group members find a balance between a focus on cognitive and emotional issues—talking about cases and about the feelings that arise when seeing clients—while consciously managing the functions that a designated leader would serve. 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Then the presenter talks about his or her thoughts, fantasies, feelings, and associations about the patient and the therapy. Group members then share their associations. Following that, the initial presenter is invited to share any further associations. Only at this point does the presenter give the facts of the case and the clinical dilemma. Finally, the group thinks together about what’s been discussed and what it indicates about the case. For those interested in the power of the collective unconscious, this is a fascinating process to experience. To succeed, a consultation group must feel safe and useful to its members. Here are a few simple principles to follow: Clarify the group structure. The group needs to agree on the frequency and length of meetings, which is best accomplished with a predictable schedule. The group needs to agree on its task and focus: is this group for any clinical issue or just for couples, or trauma, or group therapy? How much time will the group spend on “schmoozing,” and will there be one or more than one case presented each time? What will be the presentation format? While most groups use verbal presentation, some groups are now using videoclips—which makes the discussion much livelier. Agree on membership issues. How many members will the group have, and how will new members be integrated? Once a group has formed, I believe that decisions about adding more members should be a group decision. While it may be tempting to accept a request from someone who wants to join the group, a total of six members seems to be the maximum number for each member to have enough opportunities for presentations. Attend to the group process and dynamics. While groups should build in a “schmooze” or “check-in” time, there needs to be an agreed-upon limit to the socializing, so that the group doesn’t become a therapy group or a coffee klatch. Without a leader, the members themselves must monitor the group’s procedures and raise any important issues. Some groups do this ad hoc; others schedule a regular review meeting to evaluate how things are going. Leaderless peer supervision groups can help clinicians at any stage further clinical learning and combat professional isolation. They’re likeliest to succeed when the group members have a clear working agreement, maintain regular attendance, and create an environment in which both emotional and cognitive learning occurs. Eleanor Counselman, Ed.D., is a past president of the Northeastern Society for Group Psychotherapy and an assistant professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. She’s published numerous articles on psychotherapy and has a private practice in Belmont, Massachusetts.
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NP0020 Men in Therapy: What Clinicians Need to Know

This blog focuses on discussion regarding the course NP0020 Men in Therapy: What Clinicians Need to Know.
 
 

Male-Friendly Psychotherapy with Pat Love

 

Men in Therapy: NP0020--Session 1

Welcome to “Men in Therapy: What Clinicians Need to Know.” In this series, leading innovators in the field will delve into the latest research on gender differences and discuss practical ways to make therapy more inviting and helpful for male clients.

In this first session with couples and family specialist Pat Love, you’ll discover how to work with men in therapy by appealing to their logical side with fact-based, practical approaches. You’ll learn how applying brain science to gender differences can open up resistant male clients, and help opposite-sex partners better understand each other’s world.

After you hear this presentation, please take a few minutes to comment about what you found most interesting or relevant. These comment boards will be a valuable way to share your thoughts, opinions, and questions throughout the series. If you ever have any technical questions, please feel free to contact support@psychotherapynetworker.org and our Support Team will help you.


06.05.2012   Posted In: NP0020 Men in Therapy: What Clinicians Need to Know   By Psychotherapy Networker
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  • -0.3 avatar Jane Fox 06.06.2012 19:07
    Wow, Pat and Richard, this was fantastic. Where would I go to learn more of the research on narcissism? On gender science? Thank you for this class, Jane Fox, LCSW
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  • 0 avatar Al Bright 06.08.2012 00:13
    I knew it!! This estrogen dominant male therapist now has an "official" classification other than "rather unusual"; "strange" and/or "very different".
    Thank you Pat for encouraging me to go back into practice and maybe specializing in men's issues.


    Al Bright
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  • Not available avatar smiller 06.08.2012 12:37
    Very helpful -- the estrogen-testosterone dominance continuum, 2 empathic systems, impulse to.., how to intervene with complaints -- express the desire behind the complaint (positive, measurable, specific--PMS!). I will be seeing a couple in 2 hours and will present this information to them. Am looking forward to their feedback. Thanks Pat (& Rich).
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  • Not available avatar Linda 06.09.2012 19:58
    I also loved learning about the continuum model and the two "hard wired" systems. Pat, you began to talk about working with male shame. Could you say a little more about how you work in session with that? I work with men in recovery and this is a huge issue for them. Particularly if/when they relapse.

    Also thank you Networker!!!
    Linda Martin, LPC, CACII
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  • Not available avatar Deb Goethe 06.10.2012 00:49
    Pat, this was an excellent presentation, and I loved your illustrations...very clear and very helpful! Richard, as always, your interviewing was top notch. Thank you both, so much!
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  • Not available avatar Sneha Nikam 06.10.2012 09:05
    Really enjoyed this presentation. Very informative and clear. Thanks a lot to both Pat Ma'am and Rich Sir.
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  • Not available avatar Joy Lang 06.10.2012 19:14
    Wow - what a fantastic presentation. That was incredibly helpful. Some of what you described Pat, I found myself nodding along with as I recognized both my clients and my own relationship. I'm curious about whether two estrogen dominant individuals are likely to be in a relationship and if so, are there special issues that they face?
    Thanks again for an incredibly helpful presentation. Rich - as always your interviewing was fantastic.
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  • 0 avatar Sarah Chana Radcliffe 06.10.2012 22:45
    Extremely enjoyable & valuable presentation - thanks so much! I work in a very similar way and it was a great validation of the approach I take with the added bonus of hard science to back everything up. I'll be checking out the client hand-outs and other materials on your site.
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  • Not available avatar John Eckenwiler 06.11.2012 09:42
    This information was sound and helpful. I did want to express a concern about using emails to summarize sessions, which was discussed at the end of the presentation. Best practices seem to unanimously suggest this can lead to a compromise in confidentiality. Any other thoughts on this would be welcomed.
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  • Not available avatar Julie Tapley 06.11.2012 11:37
    Thanks Pat for the lively and informative presentation. I have often experienced the two empathic systems (mirror neuron and TPJ) at play in a couples dynamic.
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  • Not available avatar Sara Schwarzbaum 06.11.2012 14:24
    This was great! Extremely helpful.
    I believe Rich said that Pat may answer some questions. If that is the case, I would like to hear or read a bit more about how Pat deals with the "hitting the wall with the narcissistic client" issue. My practice is entirely devoted to working with couples and we (my associates and I)seem to hit the wall with same. Any other tips or direction to continue the exploration on effective ways to work with that issue? I think some of this is on realizing what the limits of therapy are in terms of how much change we can expect. Thank you!
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  • Not available avatar Carol McDermott 06.11.2012 19:33
    Many thanks to you and, as always, to Rich for making it happen.
    I was introduced to you when I first started practicing in 1993 and have used the comments you gave me then (about infants absorbing the fear of their mothers) in my trauma work.
    It also helped hearing from you in your nonjudgemental way that it is not necessary to baby children forever.
    Now you have again helped me with new information and validated my intuitive ways to work with couples. Today is my 52 year anniversary. My husband and I need all the help we can get to keep our marraige happy. Thanks for all you give.
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  • Not available avatar Leslie Weitzel-Nicoll 06.11.2012 19:34
    Pat, you are sparkly and engaging! MNS and TPJ, loved it. Can't wait to use it. I thought of couples immediately who would enjoy this information. My husband will love me even more with my clearer understanding of "why he does what he does". Women talk to connect and Men connect to talk. Excellent. Thanks so much.
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  • Not available avatar Winifred M. Reilly 06.12.2012 00:26
    Many thanks for a highly informative discussion. I particularly appreciated the "not all men/women are this way" reminder. As clinicians, while it is crucial that we understand gender differences, it's equally important that we eschew stereotypes and pay attention to the individuals before us, so as to see them as unique. Thanks again.
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  • 0 avatar Bertha Alicia Alcocer 06.12.2012 00:51
    Thank you very much for sharing this information. I specially appreciate to hear about MNS and TPJ. I enjoyed this session very much
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  • Not available avatar Tarla Curran 06.12.2012 00:53
    Listening to your interview with Pat Love was a real treat. At last someone who combines the rational and emotional aspects of therapy in an integrated and clinically elegant way. She not only works "directly, factually, and scientifically" but in such an honest, fearless, and engaged way that is truly inspiring. A great role model!
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